I think the answers above tell the story from the woman's side. One wants to be sick when someone tries to pick her up, another wants to throw drinks in our faces. What are we supposed to do.
I will only go and talk to a woman if she is sitting with girl friends and only if they are at the bar, not at a table. Most of the places I go have music or live music. I usually ask the woman who looks like she has never been picked up in her life if If she says no, I ask the rest if "anyone would like a quick spin on the dance floor, "just for fun"."
It isn't easy, but I just moved to NY for work and live alone. How else am I supposed to meet someone other than co-workers?
2006-12-29 05:22:35
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Perhaps the question shouldn't be "should I *let* my wife bartend?" You don't own her. However, if it's bothering you the best way to get it out in the open is to tell her it's been nagging at you and you'd like to discuss it. There are lots of jobs out there that she could do rather then bartend just to make some extra money. BUT - bartenders, if they're good, can make excellent tips. You should both hear each other out and discuss the pros/cons of it.
2016-03-28 23:49:38
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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I've always thought the best pick up line was just "hi" followed by a comment tailored to the situation.
Shows thought and interest and that you aren't playing some "formula" game.
I don't know anything about you and I don't hit on bartenders when they are on the other side of the bar.
Serve me well and I tip well. Guys tip female bartenders big because they think they can get some extra attention. You know all this though.
2006-12-29 05:03:51
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answer #3
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answered by bluto blutarsky2 3
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I used to bartend and I've every line in the book--i cannot even begin to come with the cheesiest line since line since there are so many!! I guess if I had to choose--it would be the same old--"wanna get married' one because they think if you're not you need to go home with them.
None of their lines ever got my attention.
2006-12-29 05:03:24
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answered by smeezleme 5
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I never use pickup lines (because they are really really stupid and never work) I would just ask you the question I always ask female bartenders "what do you do when you're not bartending?"
Since most bartenders in New York are aspiring actors, vocalists or fashion designers, that is a good open ended question - the girl gets to talk about herself (which is everybody's favorite topic) and I get to show that I'm interested in something she's passionate about.
Oh yeah, and I always tip well (that always leaves a good impression)
2006-12-29 05:05:12
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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Ever seen a crisp 100 dollar bill? That is the cheesiest one I have ever used, but you should have seen the "woman" I used it on. Gave me a blowie out in my car later that night and I didn't have to give her the 100.
2006-12-29 05:04:24
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answer #6
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answered by Jimmy Mick 3
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Hmm, one that would get your attention...
well, i would say something like...
You look like an interesting woman and i'd like to get to know you a little better. Can I buy you a drink, we sit down, and talk for a bit?
then you'd just look at me, since i'm not an atractive guy, and am fairly large, you'd say no thanks, and i'd turn and leave believing that i'll never meet some one that is able to see beyond what a guy looks like... it's happened befor, so there's no need to try and deny that you'd do the same...
2006-12-29 05:04:04
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answer #7
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answered by Junior1544 6
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okay, here are a few that no one has mentioned yet.
"Are those space pants you're wearing, cause your a** is out of this world"
"Nice dress (skirt, shirt, etc), it's going to look good piled on the floor next to my bed later tonight"
"Wow. You're rather exotic looking. What nationality are you?" wait for answer and pick another ethnicity not mentioned. "So you don't have any Italian/Russian/French/etc. in you, do you want some?"
"Nice shoes, wanna f**k"
Guy (while blinking furiously) "what blinks all the time and f**ks like a tiger?"
2006-12-29 07:44:35
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answer #8
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answered by The Guru 4
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Have u noticed that every man has there own pick up line, the only thing they can get with em is a drink thrown in there face.
2006-12-29 05:04:51
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answered by one tuff babe 3
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Wanna ****? That was the cheesiest one I've heard.
2006-12-29 05:00:43
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answered by Lowa 5
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