My b/f knew,... before we started going out,about my friendship with my ex.I was with his family when the phone rang and it was my ex, he wanted to ask something,i think my b/f got upset,especialy in front of his family.What can i expect from my b/f when i see him ??? It happened yesterday.
2006-12-29 04:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by lady F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would u like it if he was babbling all day to his ex-gf and not talking to you when you're physically there?
get a grip girl...
2006-12-29 05:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Trey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he knew, it is probably difficult for him to have you and another man in an exclusive relationship even if it is not sexual. He will probably be upset and even though you have a right to your friends i would say to pre-empt the anger with a sincere apology. The other thing that i think you need to do is to involve your B/f and your ex in your life together... there is no real reason that your relationship should be exclusive and if it is, then the only point i can see is that there is something more between you and your ex. Otherwise keeping it all in the open and directing things thru your current b/f can do alot to smooth things out and keep both in your life.
2006-12-29 13:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Codi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I get the same drama from my boyfriend. they get jealous because we were with someone else who cared about us and kissed us and hugged us. but what they don't understand is, if you wanted to be with your ex...then you would be with your ex. insecurity is NO GOOD when you're in a relationship.
I'm not sure if you are in love with your boyfriend or even how long you've been with him. but if you do do care and want the relationship to last..let him know exactly how you feel and also let him know that if he had a problem with you speaking to your ex..he should have said something from the get go. You shouldn't have to stop your friendship with your ex or anyone else because he doesn't approve of it. maybe you could slow down on the communication with your ex. let your ex know that your man isn't too comfy with the idea of you two communicating and you would appreciate it if maybe the calls weren't so frequent.
best of luck..coming from someone who goes through the same thing. :]
2006-12-29 13:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by ayo_ari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if his ex rang him everyday?Anyone would feel insecure if they have to put up with 3 people in a relationship.Why does your ex have to ring you cant he get a life of his own.If you are that cosy together why did you break up in the first place.It wont just be your new bloke who finds this unacceptable I'm sure any future boyfriends will too.
2006-12-29 13:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can expect for him to maybe still be mad at you. Just talk to him, if he is mad find out why. Let him know why you answered the phone and what you talked about with your ex b/f.
2006-12-29 13:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by pinkzebra396 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be a little mad at you. My b/f gets mad at me too. I am really good friends with my ex. His family is like my family so it's hard not to talk to him. I just explain things to my b/f. I tell him that things are done btwn me and my ex and that we are still friends and if he trusts me he shouldn't care. I don't know what to tell you besides that.
2006-12-29 13:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-31 21:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by SuRiCaTo MeLoSo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coarse he is going to be upset.... put yourself in his position would you like one of his exs to call him and talk to him all the time... if he is that jealous about it then if you want to be with him you have to stop talking to your ex because its gonna cause problems... you have to make a decision your ex or you bf
2006-12-29 13:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by SB33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the way i see it he has a reason to be, and i suggest that u forget ur ex and stay with the guy u have
i see his point
2006-12-29 13:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to decide with who you want to stay with
2006-12-29 13:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Geraldine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋