Well there is this guy at school who I like. I think he likes me back but I don't know how to confront him. I want him to ask me out after we get to know each other. Help?
2006-12-29 04:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by Suburban chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think a problem a lot of people make is asking people out too soon.
if you seriously like this guy, you should try and hang out with him first.'
become a good friend ( a flirty one but a friend none the less)
this way, the worst thing that comes out of it is a new bestie.
chances are that this ghuy will liike you back and you will end up dating.
2006-12-29 05:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Allie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think first of all, be yourself! Then just strike up a conversation with him. Be confident and keep your cool (and again, don't forget to be true to who you are). If you snag him trying to act like someone else, the truth always comes out once you are dating for a while. People cannot hold back who they are for long.
Good luck and happy new year. You sound like a sweet girl so I wouldn't know how he could resist you!
2006-12-29 13:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Suburban chocolate? That's different. Just try to engage in casual conversation with him. Talk about whatever. Try to make eye contact. You can usually look somebody in the face and tell whether or not they're feeling you.
2006-12-29 13:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has not noticed you yet he is not right for you , however if you really really want him then you have to have faith in yourself to have courage and confidence and beleive in yourself to be straight with him and tell him how you feel (if you get him alone) just tell him what you feel and ask..... i know it sounds simple but its not so simple when face to face this is why i said have courage and confidence and be straight with him , just be yourself and say what you feel , i did many times and was often dissapointed and hurt till i found the right one for me , my soul mate , we have been happily married for 3 years now together for 6 and we have a 3 and 5 year old
2006-12-29 13:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by insenergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can drop subtle hints to let him know that you like him, then wait for him to make a move. Or you can be bold and just tell him, maybe he likes you too but cant figure out a way to tell you. Just tell him you have feelings for him and see what he says
plus, get to know him first, you can tell if he's interested or not
2006-12-29 13:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by cute_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the answers in the question itself.
Start speaking to him, c'mon, its not rocket science. Just go ahead and talk to him. Do some research on what he likes and any common interests. Speak to him, let him speak to you. (Meaning: Dont go on yak yak yak..)
After he gets to know you better, he will ask you out. Take a Chill Pill, baby.. All the best.
2006-12-29 13:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You said, get to know him first, you may not want to go out with him after you get to know him.
2006-12-29 13:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by furiousstyles22003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like don't think of it as like confrontation. Like think of it as like initiating like meeting and like don't be so like shy.
2006-12-29 13:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rowicz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE YOUR TIME AND GET TO KNOW HIM, EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FROM THERE.
2006-12-29 13:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋