Always resist the urge to call your ex...take yourself out of your ordinary scene make time to visit friends and family. In time, you will be glad you and your lover are in the past.
2006-12-29 04:43:31
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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He's just not that into you ! A relationship isn't meant to be b/c it is not the right one for you; reinvent yourself meaning; devote time to improving yourself; take a class; volunteer to help someone or abused animals; be a dog walker for the pound; turn your pain (right now; b/c it won't last forever) into good for yourself and others; someone else doesn't make you nor define you; only you can do it; so what this relationship is over probably wasn't any real good not like the one waiting for you to love you , appreciate you and stand by you; do you want that one or the one who breaks your heart so easily ; you will find love but it won't find you if you are confining yourself, feeling sorry for yourself and worrying about a louse who left you; celebrate that you are rid of a loser holding you back from true love; love doesn't hurt you so you don't have love in the prior relationship ; you think you do but you deserve better than that ; now go after it ; invest in yourself and this will pass ; later on you will see it was for the good of you and you will be so glad then that it didn't work out; the world is a big place now find yourself out there and don't waste another minute on someone who is just not that into you!!!
2006-12-29 12:50:46
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answered by sml 6
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Only time can mend a broken heart. Try getting yourself involved in outside activities that do not remind you of the love that you lost. Try meeting new people and explore new things. Do not dwell on what went wrong and who is to blame and just move forward. Good luck.
2006-12-29 12:44:31
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answered by sweetlaughter434 3
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First, accept that it will take time...You have to grieve your loss before you can move on, so don't bury it inside, feel it....Spend time alone, but not a lot. See your friends often, spend time with family, stay busy with projects and hobbies. Find a new hobby. Explore your own desires, and better yourself in one way or another. Don't jump into another relationship right away...this will cause you to bury your pain, and it will show up in the new relationship in one way or another.....take time, reflect, examine why the relationship failed, and learn from it.....time does make things better, but reflection makes them clearer.....Sorry for your heart, hope it mends.....
2006-12-29 12:47:20
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answered by ? 4
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You are a smart intelligent person.There are so many more fish in the sea. Grab a cup of hot chocolate, candy bar, or sleep. Curl up in your bed and think of all the great things you have done. If not stroll through the mall look at different social scenes maybe you'll meet a new girl or guy which ever you prefer! Surround yourself with people who love you, friends, family,etc. Good Luck!!!!
2006-12-29 12:47:24
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answered by étoile 2
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A good cry. A little wine. A little anger. Breathe. Give it 10 minutes to reflect. Make a decision to feel a little better the next day. Then the next. Until you are working your way out of it.
Give your pain a timeframe. Once that time is over, change up old habits.
Its a cycle, but you can do this.
Good Luck, and always remember..ALL PAIN IS TEMPORARY.
2006-12-29 12:45:59
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answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5
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Time can only mend a broken heart.............take care......
2006-12-29 12:44:39
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answered by Anonymous
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i know its nto easy but in time you will find someone new that will love you and not break your heart i thought i would never get over my heart break but i relaized he was just an asshole and the guy that im with now is 100% better.
2006-12-29 12:44:22
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answered by Victoria 6
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God. God helps everyone and he'll definitely help you. Become religious as the belief is the most important part of life. Without belief you are nothing as everything is created by the creator so seek help from your creator he'll definitely help you! :-)
2006-12-29 12:55:51
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answered by Smart me!!! 1
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Time heals
2006-12-29 12:49:18
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answered by dj 4
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