she's over confident ,smarter then me,doesn't care for any guy around her.
2006-12-29 04:32:54 · 13 answers · asked by ecstacy 5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is your question? It sounds like she's bright and aware, because there aren't a lot of guys in college that a sensible, good-hearted or perceptive girl could really care for (I'm not saying that she couldn't be stuck-up, because I don't know her).
Are you really different than the pack? In any case, I think you still need to make an effort and don't get into the habit in life of not trying things. If you have an inclination to do something, DO IT (in other words, I vehemently disagree with Rich directly above)!
Also, don't get into the mindset of impressing people. If you're coming from the right place and are really respectful, gentlemanly and strong, a girl will sense that.
2006-12-29 04:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple and quite easy, but it has multiple parts each as important as the others.
1. Be yourself, she has to be attracted to you
2. Women love a guy who really knows how to be playful, this can take many forms, a sense of good humour (not always at the expense of others), flirting etc.
3. Treat her as an equal , you say she is smarter than you and over confident. She probably finds most guys pander to her, DO NOT do it, appear to treat her like anyone else in your life. If you really want to live dangerously, treat her a little worse than other people. But this is a very risky course, you can appear like a git.
It depends how far you are willing to take your impressing, you could do any number of things each more outrageous than the last. But ultimately she has to like you and be attracted to you, so find what she likes and what she is like. If in the process she likes you then it will work out.
Hope this helps
Chris aka BoobBoo
2006-12-29 12:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by boobboo77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this girl likes guy who is smarter and probably a little better than she is. the reason why she doesn't care about any guy around her is simply because she thinks those guys are not good enough for her. if you think you are smarter then she is, congratulation, because all you need to do is to show it to her. if she is academic kind of gal, you just need to score higher than her in a test or help her out with homework. i am an acdemic kind and i am always impressed with guys who scores higher than me and are able to help me out. (i do pretty well in classes to begin with, so those guys must be really really good).
if you are not smarter than she is, sorry, you just need to work a little harder to get her attention. some of the comments are really useful, like paying attention to details is a good one. careful with the "be more confident" suggestion though. if you are not good or smart enough, but come off too confident, she might think you are just another over-confindent-college-moron. one thing i think really work is standing up for her in front of other people. a girl always have moment when things are out of her control, and she is too confident to admit it. standing up for her always make a good impression. i remember one time a guy said something bad to me and i just pretended i don't care because i wanted to be one of the guys. i knew that if a guy had stood up for me, i would have kissed him right there.
anyway, good luck with this girl.
2006-12-29 16:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by musi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a women I have been attracted to tons of different types of guys. You know what they all had in common.. No not money or looks... Confidence. Yes confidence is the sexiest thing a guy can have going for him!! Like who you are and eventually she or another great girl will notice!
2006-12-29 12:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by BRI 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kind of sounds like you're down on yourself. I'd say just be yourself since this will only help you in the long run. There are plenty of girls in college who will respect you more for being yourself rather than trying to change who you are just to impress someone.
2006-12-29 12:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by jakejc795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to impress a woman? Here's two secrets that most men have not figured out: 1) Women love men who make them laugh. 2) Women love when men notice small details. Why do you think we get so pissed off when our boyfriends/husbands can never figure out what to get us for Christmas/birthdays? ... it's because if he paid attention to little things that make us tick, he should know what kind of gift we would want.
2006-12-29 12:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to even talk to her? She sounds like a stuck up b*tch and probably isn't worth the headaches she would surely cause. But, if you must talk to her, I would simply start out by rambling on about StarTrek and Dungeons and Dragons. Use your expertise on these subjects. If she gives you the snotty attitude, just remind her that yes, her s*hit does stink, just like the rest of us.
2006-12-29 12:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Study hard and show through our academic and athletic abilities that you are superior.........when she realizes this act aloof.
2006-12-29 12:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull it out in front of her and say "take it or leave it"
2006-12-29 12:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother you will always feel inferior to her because she's better than you.
2006-12-29 12:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋