im 21 and i saved myself for marriage and i am getting married in april and now i am a little nervous about getting hurt
2006-12-29 04:31:31 · 17 answers · asked by SB33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It usually is painful but doesn't have to be. If your husband knows how to get you "ready" for making love for the first time,or anytime, you should feel only slight discomfort. I think it's wonderful you"re waiting untill you get married.
2006-12-29 04:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get all nervous about it and tense up then there could be pain involved. Considering this is the man you love and are going to marry this should be an exciting and pleasurable time for you both. Since you know he loves you and cares about you he will be careful to be gentle and that will decrease any chances for pain.
Kudos to you for waiting! God bless you & your new life!
2006-12-29 12:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited till I was 18 so I feel your pain. no pun intended. No it was'nt really painfull at all. I was just sore. I'm sure it will all be worth it though! Good for you on the waiting. I know from experience it's not easy!! Have a great wedding!! Good luck!
2006-12-29 12:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by BRI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be very "protective" of you and not want your fist time to be uncomfortable or painful. Dont worry, you will be OK.
It sounds like the young ladies that have answered above me that they did not have a caring person during the first time.
Mine husband was very gentle and their was no pain, a bit of discomfort, but he was very very kind and loving about us becoming one. After the first time it has always been fun, and fulfilling.
2006-12-29 12:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um Yes it can hurt a little or it can hurt a lot, it all depends on how big ur guys thing is. Good Luck!!!!
2006-12-29 12:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, well just make sure that he is really patient and slow for your first time. if he is gentle you will be a little uncomfortable at first but it will get better. good luck with your marriage. happy new year.
2006-12-29 12:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can hurt. But aslong as you guy is not asn A$$ you should be fine. Make sure he takes it nice and slow. Oh and use LOTS of lubricant. You will be fine. Just make sure you tlak to him before hand and let him know your concerns.
2006-12-29 12:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts like hell, but after the first time it can be fun once in a while.
2006-12-29 12:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple and to the point. For some it hurts a lot and for others there can be little to no pain at all.
CONGRATS!!!!
2006-12-29 12:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember it hurts on both when care is not taken..the answere is foreplay lots of foreplay.. when lots of scretions have built up and i mean a lot then things will go smoothly apply this to each time.. life will be a lot more enjoyable
2006-12-29 12:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by clark t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋