1/ Would you go out with and get married eventually to a guy who loves you with all his heart (you like him a lot and appreciate him, but theres no animal attraction)
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2/go out with a guy who you know does not genuinely care for you and you know he will use you and mes with you and the relationship will go nowhere... but you feel yourself being drawn into him and are attracted to him for some unexplicable reason.
Matters of the heart are soo weird and confusing : (
2006-12-29 04:27:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Number two doesn't even sound fun to me ... it sounds like a relationship full of lies & drama ... if you put all that attention you have for guy # 2 into guy # 1 ... I'm sure sooner or later you'll find his appreciation, love, caring ... etc ... a lot more attractive than that crazy animal " I gotta have you " feeling ... those are feelings of lust ... not love ... and let me tell you ... it took me years to finally find somebody I truly love ... I wish I could take back all those years I wasted on lust ... to spend more time with the one I love now .... it's crazy ... but you'll mature and see what truly is important in a relationship ... good luck with what ever you decide ... !
2006-12-29 04:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-29 04:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-29 04:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. But honestly it seems like you shouldn't be with either. The first guy you don't love so why get married? The second guy doesn't care about you or your feelings so why waste time and energy on something that going nowhere fast. Find someone who has everything you want.
2006-12-29 04:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i would not pick either due to if number one sounds great up to the lack of attraction animal , if i could not give back what he gives me by a 100% i would not cheat either of us out on finding the right one, there is nothing worse then a 80-60 relationship it hurts i have been there. and for number two if someone is atrractive to a person that will use them or mess with their emotions i hope they stop themselves before they get into a ugly situation and lose what love really is all about
2006-12-29 04:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First choice, if the guy doesn' t like you'll find yourself doing all sorts of things to "Make" him like you and you'll feel your efforts go unappreciated, you'll start thinking things are wrong with you and it will eventually mess up your self esteem. Having a guy that appreciates you even if you don't feel the same way can be just as depressing, but it's better to have someone who cares for you than someone who doesn't. I mean if those are your only options.
2006-12-29 04:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by TKM2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 for sure, but you want number 2 because us women are attracted to the whole bad boy thing. But if you know he's going to break your heart, why would you even consider it, save yourself the heartache and choose number 1. Good Luck:)
2006-12-29 04:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by daisy83731 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not pick either one of them.
Choice number one is not fair to you or him.
Dont you think enough about guy number one that he should have someone who feels the same way about him? Further more, why would you SETTLE for second best when you could have someone who really LIGHTS your fire.
Guy number two is a waste of time and might cloud your vision (with his games and undoubtedly other women) and make you bitter when a great man comes along.
DUMP THEM BOTH
2006-12-29 04:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't chose either if you have given that choice but you didn't so I would choose 1. 2 sounds like it would be a situation that you would be hurting a lot.1 would at least be something you could live with.
2006-12-29 04:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would chose 1, if I had no other options...2 would sounds like he will bring heart ache and you definetely do want to stay up late crying b/cuz #2 did you wrong. I say get to know #1, and if you feel it isn't going anywhere...continue to date/hang with diff. ppl...Remember u always have options...good luck
2006-12-29 04:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Nemos Mom 2.2.10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋