This is really just for women only. I am a guy and I was wondering what your thoughts where on waiting to have sex after marriage. Its just its one of my morals that I can't change about myself. I mean don't get me wrong after marriage we could has much sex as we wanted, but before then I really want to wait. And I know people will probably say sexual chemistry is important and there is nothing wrong with premarital sex. But I truly believe that would not matter if we truly loved each other.
2006-12-29 04:22:42 · 20 answers · asked by RIP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is designed for husband and wife only. Purity before marriage is absolutely a must. Two thumbs-up for your decision and principle! Believe me, it's WORTH it! When the time comes, you'll have it with the special woman you love and respect whom you'll call a wife! Don't get discouraged when people criticize you for your belief. You're right!
2006-12-29 04:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in waiting until marriage, but physical chemistry is a good thing. Tooling around a bit is a good thing. You'd hate to find out that your sexually incompatible once you are married, because sex is a very important part of a marriage, amongst other things.
You have to explore all of these things prior to marriage to make sure you are with the right person.
You can explore sex, without sexual penetration. Touching and exploring ones likes and dislikes is a good way to find out if you are a match. Just have the strength to NOT take it to the last step.
2006-12-29 04:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Myndlynd T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, stick with your beliefs and don't let anyone else change them. My husband and I also waited until we were married. It was a wonderful experience for both of us. I know people think that it's a really old fashioned way of thinking, but we were both brought up with this belief and it worked out great for us. We have been married for 19 years this past Aug. and we are still going strong. You just do what you believe in and I'm sure everything will work out for you. It's nice to here that there are still people out there with good morals and values these days.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 04:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister in law was a virgin bride when my brother married her and they dated for 7 years before getting married. He had no problem with it because he loved her and respected her. They've been married for 4 years and have a fantastic, really close marriage. I think it helped that it was based on friendship rather than sex.
2006-12-29 04:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something anyone should know for itself . i cant blame people which want to wait till after marriage but me for myself i dont agree as i think that its a very important part in the relationship . love is great but its related to it . its what makes the difference from beeing just friends . so it has a very high % rate in the relationship .
2006-12-29 04:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you only wanted to hear from chicks but trust me you want to hear from married guys. OK - hereis the truth - your best sex happens before you aremarried. Period. Sex aftermarriage is fine. waiting is fine. But you'll be missing the best sex of your life. You sgould really try as many girls / women as you possibly can and experiement as much as possible. Then try to marry the woman / girl that gives you the best sex. try to settle down with a real horn dog - try for one that is pretty and has other great attributes too. Older chicks want less sex - doesn't matter what they tell you in books.
2006-12-29 04:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to have sex before marriage, that's your perrog. But if you marry a woman who's not satisifed by your performance would you have a problem with that? Once she's married to you she's suppose to be with you for better or worse. I'd hate to get stuck with that deal.
2006-12-29 04:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you on your fortitude. About sexual chemistry: you don't need to have sex to figure that out. If you get aroused by looking in her eyes, holding her hand, hugging/kissing, then the chemistry is there!
2006-12-29 04:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there sex after marriage is the question?
2006-12-29 04:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by brainlady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All the married people I know stopped having sex not long after exchanging their vows. So I'd make the most of it now if I were you.
2006-12-29 04:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Snowth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋