ok, i have a boyfriend named david. but, theres a problem, i have liked this other guy for a very long time. his name is hunter. i think i should break up with my boyfriend, and try to make things work with the guy i really like. but i dont know what to do for sure. so... what do i do...and what would you do?
2006-12-29 04:17:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? You sound young. Dating is part of finding the right mate. Follow your head and heart.
2006-12-29 04:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sigh.... this is an age old problem with alot of
people these days. It is not uncommon to want things you dont already have, in this case "Hunter" is the object of your desire.... meanwhile you stand the chance of loosing what you already have (or in your case...getting rid of the other guy) If David truly makes you that unhappy for what ever reason(s) that is fair and reasonable reason to part ways with David. You should also consider how you will make David feel should he find out. Will he feel used? Try making friends with Hunter before you make any decisions.
2006-12-29 04:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by John P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with Hunter for now and if things get sour with your current boyfriend; Hunter can come to pick up when you fall and then build up the relationship from there. NEVER dump a guy to go to another. Other guys get worried if this happens and may not go out with you
2006-12-29 04:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're taking a big risk by leaving you're boyfriend David. There are no promises in love so if you leave D and then this other guy doesn't work....what are you going to do? Go back to D? What if D found someone else? Karma is a B(&(^! Be careful!
Good Luck!
2006-12-29 04:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, your being unfair to every one involved right now, yourself included...
i think you need to take a step back from your current boyfriend (don't break up with him yet) and just sit down and think about everything... maybe take a week or two and not see or talk to your current boyfriend (warn him first) to be able to see things strait in your own head...
once you've done this, really sit down and think about every thing that it is you want, why you want it, as well as anything else you can think about... keep in mind, looks mean very little if you have nothing in common with a person... once you get everything straightened out in your head, then you can go back and either be with your boyfriend full time, or break up with him befor going after a new guy...
do not, i repeat DO NOT start dating this other guy befor you break up with your current boyfriend if that's what you choose to do. besides that, make sure everyone is alright... even if you do decide to break up with your current boyfriend, tell him that you still care about him, but that you don't see your relationship going anywhere, or lasting to much longer as a romantic one...
also keep in mind, most guys, once they date a girl, don't want to be their friend... they will alwas be trying to get back together, or they will leave altogether.. there are a few who want that, but not most...
2006-12-29 04:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say the grass is always greener.
How long have you been with this guy? Do you love him? Are you just bored, curious or are you done with David. This is a question that you need to answer for yourself.
Follow your heart, just be kind to David if you do break up with him, don't flaunt the new guy, you wouldnt want him to do that to you.
2006-12-29 04:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by cosmiccastaway 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first have sex with David where you and him will never forget, then after that ask yourself do you think its worth giving what he just gave you up for that other guy and if so then try the other guy but don't forget that you might not be able to go back with David.
2006-12-29 04:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were U, I wouldn't take the risk to lose my realationship with D.
2006-12-29 04:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by √iç √µ® 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. It is not fair to be with someone you don't really like. Its not fair to you or him. Life is too short to settle for someone you don't really like. good luck. Do what makes you happy.
2006-12-29 04:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by just peachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is the most important because you dont want to hurt anyone...if you want to be with this other guy then let the current one know, who knows, probably have a threesome
2006-12-29 04:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋