hi i am a 35 yr-old mother of two doin well but about 2yrs aago iwas living in the projects 4 12 yrs and my grand ma came upon some money,well my uncle from atlanta took control of everything.anyway,he told me he wanted me to get out of the project to have a better life for me and my kids and wanted me to be close to my granny so my granny bought me a use good lookin mobile home but we have a contract to where i pay her 200 per mon.til i'm finish.so everything was goin good til my uncle moved down here with my granny,all of a sudden he don't like my bf so it cause a lot bad blood.he wanted me to pay lot fee tried to get me sued from my home,took me to court but he lost.okay,i got rid of my ex and found someone who is everything to me and my kids,hell,even my uncle like him alot,but things still didn't changed.my uncle went behind our back and bought the land that we r on cause he don't want my mom nor my sis on the land because they stick out for me,it's bad!!!so pleez help me heal
2006-12-29 04:15:39 · 5 answers · asked by sonya35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now that i have someone in my life that is worth it,he wants to charge me 300 per for lot fee so if anyone out there can help me mend my broken heart plezz do
2006-12-29 04:45:42 · update #1
You need to talk with your family minister. He can counsel you. This is too in depth for a quick accurate answer here.
2006-12-29 04:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prayer and patience honey, prayer and patience. I would suggest that you get a written contract. That way you protect yourself and won't be hit with any surprises (like him charging more). As for your personal life, that's your business. As long as you pay up there's nothing he can do. If you aren't able to handle the cost then talk with your uncle and granny right there together and see if they can't compromise and charge less (still ask him politely for a contract because you just want to make sure you protect yourself). Know that people will be people whether it's your relative or a total stranger. Turn it over to the Man above. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-12-29 13:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. Talking with priest or someone would help you alot better than neone can. Obviously it wasnt the boyfriend that your uncle didnt like, it is you and your family. He doesnt want you newhere near him or your grandma. By getting closer to your grandma, it sounds like he is wanting some money and he doestn want you to have ne. Sadly, greed is something that takes over ppl. My advice is go and talk to your grandma about whats happening beacuse shes the one who had the deal with the contract. explain to her about your uncle and she might be able to handle this situation better than neone can. Hopefully you and your kids and ur beloved boyfriend have a better life that what you are explaining!!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-29 12:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well frist off honey talk to your uncle and let him know how you feel !! if he helped you in the begining why would he turn on you know !! Let him know that you are sorry for the problems that your ex caused and allow him to know the blood os thicker then water!!! let him understand your true feelings about the way he has been acting !! maybe he will understand but at the end of the day ket him know that you love him dearly
2006-12-29 12:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i suppose we all make our own choices. go with what is in your heart, good luck. personally i'd get red of the whole lot and eventually what goes around will come around. granny
2006-12-29 12:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋