I went on vacation for a week and my significant other told me that while I was away he was going to use that time to find out if he could handle being alone. I personally think this is bullsh*t. Before I left he made sure that I had stocked the fridge and freezer with food and snacks and that the dogs had plenty of treats and food. If you were going to use time away from your girlfriend, wouldn't that mean that you had to take care of yourself completely? Wouldn't the whole point been me leaving without caring one way or the other if you had your snacks and dinners ready to throw in the microwave/oven? I say he knows he doesn't want to be alone therefore he asked me to do all those things for him before I left......
2006-12-29 04:13:18 · 11 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would question why he feels he needs to know whether he can handle being alone. In a "real" relationship, things happen and sometimes people do have to part temporarily due to vacation or maybe personal family issues, etc... It's a part of life. Of course he can handle being alone if he must-- he wont die if he has to shop for himself or make his own meals, etc... I'd be wondering if he is wanting to determine whether or not we should even be together.
But yes, you're right, whatever the circumstances, he should be taking care of himself when you are away.
2006-12-29 04:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a clear indication that he wanted to party or be with someone that you wouldn't approve of. Unfortunately. What is worse is that he was lying to you about it. If he had been man enough to face you and say that he wanted to party with someone for whatever reason, you would have appreciated it. Whether you would have approved of it or not really depends on what his reasons are and who he wanted to be with. But, I'm sure you would have like that option instead of him trying to seemingly lie to you.
No harm in speaking your heart out to him and expressing your discomfort about it. That's pretty much the only way you'll respect yourself later on. Good luck.
2006-12-29 12:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you just not do it? Tell him part of learning if he could handle being alone was taking care of feeding himself and caring for the animals.
You stocked up everything for him and now want to gripe about it? Doesn't make sense...
2006-12-29 12:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No baby he didn't mean alone that way. He meant could he do without the other kittykat without going to find anothe kitty to play with.
2006-12-29 12:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like he depends on you and he cant handle being alone especially if you had to stock up the fridge and everything else.
2006-12-29 12:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this dude that he can't go to the store to buy food?
2006-12-29 12:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAD TO MAKE SURE HE WAS TAKEN CARE OF BEFORE YOU LEFT AND HE THOUGHT THAT WAS BEING ON HIS OWN.
2006-12-29 12:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bless him,,is he smug he didnt starve to death or fall in the freezer,,,i actually think this is quite funny,,the fact he thinks HE survived no thanks to you,,,,,i can imagine my husband doing this and not having a clue why i was laughing.aw,,so sweet. make him work for his supper.lol cheeky bleeder
2006-12-29 12:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't it nice to know he relies on you that much dont' you like making sure hes well taken care of?
2006-12-29 12:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sucks!. You are not his maid. And when you comeback, she will like you to make his laundry.
2006-12-29 12:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Fernando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋