so i gave her time and now she is saying that her heart says yes but her head says no . this is messing with my head . should i just walk away from her and tell her not to think anymore .? this seems a long drawn out mess
2006-12-29 04:01:13 · 23 answers · asked by bob a builder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's only been a few days...give her time and space...good luck
2006-12-29 04:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon if someone has doubt about a relationship you need to give them time. It's a brave thing to admit you want to break up. A lot of people stick together because they don't have the courage to end at the risk of hurting. If it's meant to be it's meant to be I suppose - cliche but true enough. Better that you get back together again due to falling for each other again than sticking together with someone who's not totally into you. Give her time. Get on with making the most of yourself and feeling cool about who you are. This girl or any other girl will not help but fall in love with you if you're cool about yourself. You have to be attracted to yourself before anyone else can be attracted to you! Dean
2006-12-29 04:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by mondaylover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, come on Bro. On christmas eve?? Who gets dumped on christmas eve?? Isnt this day supposed to be spent with the people that you love and care about?? These are HUGE RED FLAGS you are ignoring!!!
In plain & simple words, she is not that interested on you and more than likely she probably has feelings for someone else. You can either walkaway and let her go- she'll come around to you when ever she is ready and its meant to be, or stay in it and be content with what you are currently getting from it, but dont take this relationship serious. Good luck!
2006-12-29 04:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, I think that if you choose to give her time, limit it. Don't be miserable and just wait around for her. Life is passing you by. I am also having to listen to mine own advice. I really do feel for you. I know what it is like to be told something very similiar. Ask yourself this, if her heart is telling her YES, then shouldn't she really want to be with you. I really would not let this go on much longer at all. I am sure you will find someone else who will truly love you without playing head games.
Good Luck!
2006-12-29 04:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang! Well you tell her what you really feel about her and let her tell what she really feels about you. You also say What are you really feeling about us? you ask her question. If her heart is sayin yes that means=she wants you if her mind is telling her no= then you got people telling her things that not true...so just move on to someone better who knows the answer!
2006-12-29 04:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Essence K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. She doesn't know what she wants so how the hell are you expected to know?!!! She may get herself sorted and decide she wants to be with you but I think you are worth more than hanging around and waiting for her to make her mind up. Get on with your life without her, and if she does come back make sure she understands the hurt and confusion she has caused you and is sorry for it. Then you may be in a position to get together.
2006-12-29 05:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be a reason why her heart says no... i mean if her heart says yes that means that she does like you and thats not the problem find out why her head is saying no.... walk away if the relationship was not serious (if it wasnt serious she sounds like a drama queen) but if it was give it some time....
2006-12-29 04:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by SB33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. If she wanted you, she'd be there with you now. If she has doubts, it's never going to work. I'll bet if she saw you with another girl, she'd miraculously want you back! Stay away from this girl and concentrate on enjoying your New Year and new start.
2006-12-29 04:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and it's the loneliness that wants her to say yes, you deserve better we've all been through, best just to move on find someone who wants you hundred per cent
2006-12-29 04:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just didn't buy you a gift so she was taking the chicken sh*t way out. She isn't worth the time or effort--find someone else who is
2006-12-29 04:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a lot of issues. She needs time and if you care for her, give it to her. If your feelings aren't that sincere, then walk away.
2006-12-29 04:04:10 · answer #11 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋