what if your bf/gf didn't contact you for 2 days and you're oceans apart would you be able to sleep good?
2006-12-29 04:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by Arianne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have done the long distance thing and yes, it would definitely cause some doubts even if they are not really justified. The thing is you have to keep your composure and remember to trust the person you are with and respect and treat them as you would like them to do with you. I am sure that there is a good reason for his not calling and it does happen but I don't think that it necessarily means that he is done with you. It only seems out of sorts based on the fact that you are both so far away and those means of contact can be taken for granted (or expected rather) when it is basically all you've got. So yes, I have felt that way but I know better then to act on it because there is nothing that justifies it and is basically a result of my own doubts and fears. Take care and good luck:)
2006-12-29 04:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the history of the relationship. If this is common for the person, don't worry aabout it. If it's uncharacteristic, first call parents, friends and if no one has seen them, report the person as missing. I think it's rude and unfair to loved ones to not touch base at least once a day to let them know where you are or that you'll be gone for a week or whatever.
2006-12-29 12:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... yes, i wud b paranoid. i wud think of all the bad and unpleasant things.. but things might nt b so bad .. mayb he/she is jst busy and not being able to call... give them the benefit of doubt... and most important, be calm and mature. Even if things are not in place, have faith in God.. mayb its for the better.
2006-12-29 12:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are all of you staring at me???? I am not paranoid!!!
*runs away maniacally*
lol, just kidding....
I would still miss my boyfriend, but I would try and write him a letter.
2006-12-29 12:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am paranoid evne if we're in the same country (different cities) and he doesn't call!
2006-12-29 12:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that. we could not communicate of 3 weeks due to military restrictions, its called trust! if you don't have it, you might as well move on.
2006-12-29 12:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sleep fine but wonder if everything were okay.
2006-12-29 12:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm already paranoid Why do you ask me?
2006-12-29 12:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by DDT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I am secure
2006-12-29 12:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Slavemaker Beta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my!! Two whole days? He must hate you. Better move on.
2006-12-29 12:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by white.devil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋