I find thong leotards incredibly attractive on women because it covers stuff up to leave to the imagination, yet is also fairly revealing. I have dated the same girl for several years now, and I've asked her to wear a thong leotard every now and then before getting intimate, but she refuses. Is it too much to ask for, i.e. to wear one perhaps a couple of times per year? I also like women who wear pantyhose and tights. I understand that these are not incredibly comforable for to wear, but I find them attractive. I have offered to give her foot rubs while she wears them, but she also refuses to wear these. Again, is to too much to ask for every now and then (a couple of times per year)
2006-12-29 03:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Those request sound very reasonable. Have you ever ask her why she doesn't want to do it?
2006-12-29 04:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see why it should be a problem. I love wearing a leotard and tights! I have found that it is something most guys won't ask for but they totally love to see it. I have a real nice long sleeve black thong leotard that I like to wear with black fishnet tights and high heel boots. The guys go wild when they see me in it and I get lots of attention. If she loved you she would do this for you. I think it looks sexy and feels great!
2006-12-30 01:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ronni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoken to her to get into her head as to why the refusal? Is she normally repressed? Does she do everything else you could want?
Wearing a leotard is not much to ask, so you need to find out why she's so steadfastly refusing. Some ideas:
1. She's not comfortable with exposing her body in a deliberately sexual way.
2. She just feels stupid or finds the ideas so unsexy personally that she really cannot imagine why you want to do it.
3. She finds them so uncomfortable that they do anything but make her feel sexy.
4. She feels like it's a demand on your part. (You're asking in such a way that you anger her.)
5. She wonders if she herself is not enough.
6. She's wondering if you have a pantyhose fetish.
7. She has incredibly ticklish feet!
8. She knows a woman whose husband started out with these requests and then it escalated into some fetishistic activities she finds distasteful or scary.
2006-12-29 04:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that is a reasonable request. I personally have a fetish for leotards and hosiery. For My BF and sometimes GF (I'm Bi)I I dress in a ballerina Leotard with the traditional white stockings and Hun I feel soo sexy wearing them...even if they do itch. As to why she won't wear them..well to each there own by bf like to lick my toes and personally I find that gross. But it's not unreasonable just not my style, so sometimes we just have to respect the others tastes.
2007-01-01 09:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not seem that way to you, but some women are very uncomfortable with revealing themselves to guys. It is sometimes all or nothing, not a common ground. What if she asked you to wear the leotard, would you wear it for her?
2006-12-29 04:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Britt Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend needs to feel comfortable in any attire she wears; I wear loungere under my clothes all the time - and it makes me feel comfortable to wear around the guy I was with.
Let her get used to it. Have her shop for stuff that feel comfortable to her tell her something 'feminine'. Even some of ladies 'boxers' are comfortable, cute and sexy. Eventually, it escalates to the sexy stuff. Treat her with lots of love - she'll feel more like a woman and will end up looking at herself in a different light.
JUST A LITTLE PSSST NOTE TO YOU: When my bf used to ask me to wear certain things - I kind of refused just like your gf. In the back of my mind, I thought maybe he visioned a certain look and would be disappointed and leave me if I didn't look like that. He kept pushing me and I ended up leaving him. So handle with care.
2006-12-29 04:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask her in case you have a three way. Then whilst she's nevertheless stunned, ask her to positioned on something sexy. it somewhat is going to look so gentle via assessment she'll think of not something of it. you would be able to additionally be waiting to get her to make you a sandwich at this factor.
2016-10-19 03:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very simple request and not at all demeaning. It's just freaking hoisery --- why she wouldn't want to is beyond me !!!!
Do you really prefer pantyhose over thigh highs or garter & stockings????
Personally pantyhose are uncomfortabe ... but if my man wanted to give me a sensual foot rub while I wore them, then most definitely I would wear !!!!
Are you out of line or asking too much ----- No way !!!!
2006-12-29 04:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with you
pantyhose are sexy
- every woman should wear them all the time
leotards look sexy to
i wish all women would go out wearing leotards and tights all the time
- day clothing
2006-12-29 23:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by jon h 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's too much to ask, but the manner in which you ask could be putting her off. How often do you ask her? I'm not particularly fond of thongs, but I love the way it drives my husband crazy so I wear one once in while.
2006-12-29 04:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so I would do it in a heartbeat just to spice things up some. Maybe say well if you where this I will wear this. Maybe there is something that turns her on like silk boxers or something!!
2006-12-29 04:02:03 · answer #11 · answered by teacuptiff86042002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋