Why r u guys afraid to talk about future if you feel like she is the one. what is it that scars you about commitment. You think we'r goanna take away your freedom or limit you for somethings. It is not like that. I mean if you look at it we lose more than u when we commite. I
2006-12-29 03:56:30 · 5 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you give it up so easily. i don't commit either.
2006-12-29 03:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Evan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, no blanket statements sweetheart. Not EVERY guy is afraid to commit, but it just so happens that you are dating one. One of the main reasons guys are afraid to commit is because we are deathly afraid of change more than anything else. It isn't just guys who have this problem and it isn't just limited to relationships. Why do you think people stay longer than want to at a job they hate, why do they hold onto an old beat up car..because they hate change..we don't fear committment, we fear change..
2006-12-29 12:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not true for ALL GUYS because my bf of 16 months are about moving in together just as soon we are both done with school then getting married a few months after and last night we were looking at weeding rings
2006-12-29 12:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by (intellgentsweetgirl) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys like me aren't afraid of it. If it aint gonna happen what's to fear?
2006-12-29 12:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by donewithyahooanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there afraid but I do believe they know who they would settle with.
2006-12-29 12:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋