i feel like im such a misery these days, i dont have alot of friends and dont have a very busy life. me and my bf have been together for 2 yrs and are goin through a rough patch which im very down about. i recently had a miscarriage too, i just want to pick myself up now and be a happy jolly lively person instead of bein so doom and gloom. im sure my mates are sick of me bein so down and i honestly want to be happy. i just feel like i dont have alot of things goin on in my life. i dont talk to my mum and dont get on with my dad who i live with, i need to move out but cant afford it. it makes me sad livin at home aswell as it isnt the best place to be. i had a pretty crap childhood and i feel it is effecting me now. i just want to be happy and concentrate on a happy future instead of bein upset all the time. my bf got a bought las week with his mate which im p**sed off about as he knws how much i hate bein at home and its 30min drive to see him so its me doin everythin now? pls help!
2006-12-29 03:56:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to start having a life of your own. it will take your mind off some of your probs, some of the time. make new friends, join a hobby club, etc. start looking for a place that you can possibly share with someone else- ppl look for roomies all the time.
if your bf is not being supportive at this troubling time then maybe you should consider getting rid of him as well. start the new year fresh and upbeat. goodluck.
2006-12-29 04:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try to live life everyday because it is too short. u keep yourself from not being happy by lowering ur self esteem with all the bad things that surrounding u. u should forget about everything and live a kounamatata life. get up, shake ur behind and say today I'm going to start a new life. go out, get ur hair done, get a pedi and a manicure, put on ur hottest outfit and hit the road to ur bf house. surprise him with a new look and a new attitude. i know u can do it just think about it.
2006-12-29 12:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't focus on yourself. You referred to yourself about 20 times in your paragraph. Go volunteer at a hospital, or old folks home, or an elementary school.
If you want to be happy here is the key to J.O.Y.
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2006-12-29 12:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋