is the internet full of male sexual predators? I find that within a few minutes I am ALWAYS asked what I look like, what am I into sexually and whether I will send pics or post a webcam.
Sometimes the men get quite persistent in wanting photos.
Would you men ask women these questions if you met them face to face? It's really creepy - why do you do it?
Almost all the conversations I have the men try their best to sexualise you - why?
2006-12-29 03:54:37 · 30 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RE my screen name - I go to other sites and use a neutral screen name. It's all the same.
2006-12-29 03:58:06 · update #1
EDIT - PLS READ MY ADDITION - I GO TO OTHER SITES AND USE NEUTRAL NAMES. I STILL GET MALES ASKING HIGHLY SEXUAL QUESTIONS
2006-12-29 04:03:22 · update #2
It's a bloke thing. Sex is a preoccupation and they are looking for a bit of excitement. Sad really. Got a photo?
2006-12-29 04:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but it's only a small proportion of men that do this. You have simply been in the wrong place to meet the right ones. Yes, agreed, the male psyche will always want to surge ahead but the decent ones will and should observe protocol.
I suggest that if you seriously want to meet men in your life, you go to good quality dating sites where you pay for the privilege ( so do they ) and lay down in print that sexual predators will have their nuts torn off at twenty paces. Make your own law and stop complaining that dogs will simply be dogs!
There are a lot of lovely men out there ..... be selfish enough to find them. Good luck!
2006-12-29 12:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Internet is probably the worst place in the world to meet men. You will be meeting with the crap of society, the ones that could never make it out here in the real world. These men could not possibly hook up with anyone out here in the true world because they are losers at a glance. Their cure is that if you don't see them they can rap to you and act as if they have something to offer you. I personally know of some people that have met their nightmares in the Internet and now they are deeply regretting it. The best thing to do is stay away from the Internet if you don't want to be humiliated by these freaks. Try a nice Christian church if you want to greatly increase your chances at hooking up with a decent person.....KECK
2006-12-29 12:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Tneciter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The internet is full of sexual predators and they are trying to prey on you. Some are more than willing to do it right to your face they don't care they just want to fulfill their own sexual perversions. Block them they are pedophiles and no good will ever come from them.
2006-12-29 12:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Angelz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know! I don't use chat rooms anymore, they have just got pervy and quite boring. I like a flirt, but these guys just have no clue. Its like Hi, am I turning you on? Now how on earth would that be happening. Reading the words Hi, from another person really doesn't do it for me!
I think its because they can because they are faceless, they can say what they would be thinking if they were talking to you face to face. Which is worrying.
2006-12-29 12:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does seem quite common for things to turn (or try to) sexual right away when conversing with people online. However I've dated guys offline that I've met online for years and never had a single bad experience...some were more fun than others, and some I just didn't 'click' with in person, but there were no scary ones or guys who were grossly inappropriate in person...
I figure the ones who act badly online are doing us a favor...we can weed them out straight away and not worry about them...the block and ignore functions most programs have are quite helpful in that respect...
2006-12-29 11:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sorry most of them have an expectation (fueled by the websites) that the ladies are there for one thing only and the guys are usually there because they have no social skills
but i have seen some guys that are prepared to talk and get to know a lady without asking leading questions
but generally they are older and so not as desirable --- from personal experience --- i am older
2006-12-29 12:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not all like that. I do know some people who would ask those same questions face to face as well.
We seem to be genetically manufactured to always have some sort of sexual thought bouncing around in our head.
2006-12-29 11:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is why they are online. these guys are usually sad and desperate. they don;t have the social skills to talk to a female face to face so think that the only way they can have any kind of sexual relationship with a woman is on the internet. is an easy **** for them
2006-12-29 11:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by queenjoef 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have to agree with the above, you calling youself sexykitten 69 something and yet your complaining about being asked if your sexy
Maybe we should be asking the question why YOU feel the need to sexualise yourself!
2006-12-29 11:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋