ok, so here is the deal.Me and this guy, have been best friends for about 1 month now,We are almost 24/7 together, we do shopping,concert,movie,studying together.We got so touchy in the concert the other week, so we decided to talk about whatys going on in our friendship.He told me over lunch, that he actually got out of a 2 year relationship few months ago, and that he is not ready to love someone. He said that he loves me as best friend, he wouldnt date anyone else, and he wouldnt even have friends who r girls.We have so much in common.First thing in the morning and last thing in the night, we have to say hi and bye to each other. I wake up by his phone call everyday.we spend all time together,newyear,,,,, ,Do you see any future for us,I truely like this guy very much, and i find him someone who can make me happy, and he beleive i make him happy, and everything i do, he points out and he says, that one thing i love about u, So any future?or are we going to end up being just friends?
2006-12-29 03:54:37 · 10 answers · asked by persian girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he likes you and possibly could see a future with you, but you need to give him time. Don't rush him or nudge him to the point of a relationship or you could possibly scare him off. Keep doing what you're doing. Be there for him and giving him that extra attention. I promise you that it will pay off. There's no telling how long he will prolong the friendship. I can't answer that one, but it sounds like he's just a little uneasy with calling it a relationship at this point in time.Obviously you're doing something right to have him calling day and night, going out with you, and spending so much quality time with you. I can honestly say that you are very special to him. He just want to get it right this time!
2006-12-29 04:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest if he were to pursue anything more than a friendship it would out of a rebound and in the end be a selfish breakup. This guy sounds like a friend to me and just because someone say i love something about you does not call a relationship more than friends. He already explained to you that it was just a friendship so I think you are having problems with denial and acceptance. A suggestion would to be to make sure that you are not an ego boost for him because that would not be fair to you. You should try understanding what he is going through but at the same time realize you are the most important person in your life and don't lose yourself.
2006-12-29 04:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs now a person to be right next 2 him as more of a friend. a 2 y relationship is quite a long term one so it kinds needs a longer period of time to get over it. i think it depends on you the whole thing, try not 2 be too pushy . there are some chances that u 2 have a relationship with this guy but right in this moment i think he sees you more like a friend.it`s good that u decided 2 talk abour yr relationship open with him but give him some more time and try not 2 push the limits. u have chances but it takes TIME . i wish u good luck :P
2006-12-29 04:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Crucifixio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely think there is a future for you guys. he probably just isn't ready for a serious relationship right now. if you want this to work you will just have to wait, I'm afraid. he said all that stuff to you so he really trusts you. you don't want to turn into someone different from who you are and spring a relationship on him all of a sudden. you have actually found one of those guys who look for the important things in life. my advice is to take it one step at a time and see where it takes you. if it truly was meant to be it will happen. just don't force anything. you wouldn't want to ruin a great friendship
2006-12-29 04:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...... sounds very cute! u 2 r not only best friends, but somewhere u hav also got so into each other n in love.. :) i think it shud work out... just give him sometime.. and if after sometime he doesnt still wanna b with u, try n ignore him a bit... a bit of distance might make him realise how muchhe likes u... Or it wud make him realise tht hez on a rebound n doesnt really love u... time shud telll.. but by the sound of it, i think u 2 shud land up together :) besties!
2006-12-29 04:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-31 03:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't need to be in love with someone in order to become bf/gf or get into a relationship.
You get into a relationship and then work your way to love.
It sounds like you could have a future, just talk about it and take it slow.
2006-12-29 03:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you definitely have a future.. just give him some more time to get over his previous relationship
2006-12-29 04:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the rebound relationship, don't expect anything more from him than what you have.
2006-12-29 03:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you both like each other. you guys are definitely friends with benefits :]
2006-12-29 04:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋