I started talking to this one by being a complete asshat and never complimenting her or anything. I pretty much just talk about sex with her and she is coming home next week. I have to keep talking to her till then because we plan on having sex next friday at my house. She keeps saying how excited she is to do it but I am used to treating women well and I have to keep this up until she comes over. Should I never call her and only let her call or text me? Who has experience with these type of women?
2006-12-29 03:25:27 · 14 answers · asked by jared d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can call me an asshole but I'm just giving her what she wants so i can get what i want
2006-12-29 03:26:27 · update #1
Interesting question.
2006-12-29 03:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow... you are a bit of a jerk yourself.
you have to ask yourself, WHY do you want to sleep with her so badly? It cant possibly be because you have feelings for her. Maybe its a status thing? What ever the reason is, you shouldnt treat ANYONE the way you are treating her.
Even if it looks like that is what she wants.
Those 'shallow' girls are insecure and feel like the only thing that makes boys like them is the fact that they give it up... Do you want to be a part of that?
IF you do continue with this relationship, for lack of a better word, make sure that she knows that you two are just friends, friends with benifits, but JUST friends. then treat her like you would treat an old friend. Call her from time to time, but not enough so taht she hears from you every week or every other week. Dont just call or text her when you are in the mood, just text her and say, wuzzup, just wanted to touch base with you, make sure youre alright. well, gtg... later.
that way you can keep her distant, without feeling badly about it.
it seems like you are struggling with right and wrong and thats good. maybe you should think to yourself, how would you feel if someone was doing this to your little sister or close female cousin or neice...
either way, be safe, use protection and dont think that because it looks like what she wants, that it really IS what she wants...
why not try talkin to her and see what her problem really is?
good luck.
2006-12-29 11:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by *meh* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know u really want some of her but it's not fair becuz she thinks u really act like that and she likes the part of u that's not real. Although u are an asshole, u deserve some too so just tell her u don't really act like this. Once she realizes what u did, she will see the true jerkiness in u and like u even more.
2006-12-29 11:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you want
If you just want to have sex with her then keep acting the same way
If you think your a nice guy and or are and want to act like one, then you probably don't want anything to do with that girl. And ignoring her all together would be the best way about it.
2006-12-29 11:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well believe me she is not someone that you are going to want to be with in the long run because by what you have said it sonds like you look for different things when it comes to relationships. It sounds like you are playing the jerk part a little too well though, because all you want is sex. you dont really want her. you are just pretending to be someone that you are not so that she will have sex with you.
2006-12-29 14:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a romantic you are!! have you thought she may be this way because it is all she is used to and expects,,to be treated as a pair of **** and a$$,,dont assume she is a sex maniac with no feelings because she is moving along nicely with your plan,,she may be one of those who thinks,,'this could be the one,,he may be different',,even attractive woman can be insecure.you are lying about who you are,,isnt there a chance she is doing the same thing?some people do confuse sex with love and if sex means little to her due to low self esteem she may be hoping you are the one who still remembers her last name and actually calls her for a second 'date'.
2006-12-29 11:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting situation, but it's an easy one! Take it from me... I used to think that girls only wanted the bad asses who were jerks. The truth is, however, that girls are attracted to these guys because the guys are aggressive and don't hide their sexuality like the "nice guys" do. As long as you keep your aggressiveness, you can still be a "nice guy"...! The aggressiveness, which is what your showing to her, is what gets you layed, so keep it up!
2006-12-29 11:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by helpandseek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you think you are generally a nice guy but are acting like a jerk to this girl so that you can sleep with her.
News flash. You were never a nice guy.. you are a jerk in denial
2006-12-29 11:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by lyssaria 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
These types of women probably like and deserve the treatment they get!
2006-12-29 11:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
gud question but u must not stop the calls but reduce them, n lets se how much she calls u?, if she calls much tht means she's excited about the sex
2006-12-29 11:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋