my ex start to become aggressive with me ?

Question

it's been a few days, I have broken up with my ex, ..she seems to have dumped me for another guy , and doesn't want to come back , but yet since that time, we managed to stay friends ....but, since a few days, I realized she's becoming aggressive with me ...and don't even say hi anymore, when she gets on the messenger ..is it that she doesn't love me anymore ..? or doesn't want to talk to me anymore ?

Answer 1

find someone else...
It is obvious that she does not want to talk to you or else she would. Most people, when breaking up, know the other party will leave them alone, but in your case, you have stayed in contact. She will continue to get more aggressive as time goes on because your still interacting with her. If I were you, I would simply stop messing with her all together, and find you someone that will love you for who you are. She clearly is not the one for you.

I'm sorry to be so blunt, but that is who I am, and how I view this situation. I would tell you this face to face if you were my best friend, or were my worst enemy.


Good luck, and don't fret it too much, at least you apparently did not get too involved. Which in this case is good. Delete her off you messenger, and go on with your life.
You don't love her, how could you. GET OFF THE COMPUTER AND FIND SOMEONE!!!


Laters


========STOP THE PRESS!!!!!===============
I read your old questions, and you said in one of them, and I quote " well, it's been a month since I broke up with my ex, because she was flirting with another guy and was about to leave me for him, but we are still friends in some way "

Now which is it? Did you break up with her, or did she dump you?

If I had not wasted all that time typing that answer out to you, I would delete it, because I dont like when people lie to me for any reason! Maybe this post will help someone, maybe even you, but please dont twist facts around. Its not been that long, so I am sure you can remember what happened.

Answer 2

Maybe she's realised that its too early to even consider being friends and needs space to move on before friendship can occur. She is probably unsure how to tell you this or maybe her new fella is giving her a hard time about being in contact with you. Either way you need to respect her decision and let her contact you. Don't try contacting her as you are then putting yourself forward for rejection which will hurt you even more. Let her make the next move - if she wants to.

Answer 3

She dumped you.. you're the one that's hurt. She's trying to make a clean break from you.

When you break up and say let's be friends, it means let's just talk once or twice after that and then never again until a few years later if the opportunity arises.

Move on buddy. No point in tormenting yourself.

Answer 4

Give her time she wants to distance herself and move on. You should too. Just don't interact with her for 2 weeks to a month. Then send her a nice IM or email note saying something simple like "how are you doing?" (do not say, oh I miss you so much) if she does not reply of if she is nasty to you just completly move on as she has and is trying to tell you to leave her alone.

Her agression is meant to push you away, take the hint.

Peace

Answer 5

Women are sensitive, if she broke up with you she is mad and hurt. Right now someone else is making her feel they way she wanted YOU to make her feel and she is mad at you for waiting until it was over to acknowledge her the way she wanted in the beginning. Look back over the relationship and see if you gave her what she needed.

Answer 6

move on i know it may hurt but shes moved on and sometimes its hard to just stay friends there is the right person out there for you don't let her bring you down

Answer 7

Why are you sweating it? You said yourself that she dumped you and is now your ex. Move on with your life and forget her.

Answer 8

Let it go. She isnt worth it. There are too many others that will respect you.

Answer 9

let it go...key word here is .... ex