I met this guy on myspace. He in turn introduced me to his brother who also joined myspace even though he didn't like it. I guess for me, I have no idea. Over the first couple of weeks we got really close, I know all of his secrets. We would talk for hours at first. And then it got less and less. In the mean time his brother and his girlfriend broke up and my guy went for her and told me that we couldn't talk anymore. That lasted about a day. They split up and he told me that he doesn't want me to leave him. But because we fought about it I don't think our friendship will ever be the same. In the last couple of weeks I have told him that I love him but I know he doesn't feel the same. Before Christmas I told him that I didn't think we should talk for a while because I needed a little bit of time to get over him. He still messages me. Twice now he has called me sexy and then avoids me like he didn't mean to say it. He also still talks to this other girl.
2006-12-29 03:15:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He called you sexy cause he wants to get in your pants. Blow him off, you're worth more than that. You can get you a man that will care for what you have to offer intellectually too!
2006-12-29 03:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl please ....Quit being a wimp. Don't let this guy just walk all over you. You can do better. No one wants a needy person. Quit hanging onto every word of this guy. Stand up and take control of your feelings. This guy might think you're sexy, but sexy ain't everything. This does not mean he wants to marry you.
You've told him you love him once, that's enough. If he can't appreciate you, you don't need him. Think about the way you would want someone to treat your mother/daughter and then you do not settle for less.
2006-12-29 11:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by lylas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? This is just a cyber-relationship, right? It's not like he's in your face cheating on you in real life! Get a grip! And while you're at it, go out in the real world and find a real live guy who would call you sexy to your face. These cyber relationships are a joke!
2006-12-29 11:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dum dum how are u in a realtionship w/someone u met on my space.. girlfriend u don't know all his secrets, u know what he wants u to know and believe... stop being gullible. so what he gave u a compliment, what if a guy gives u a compliment u met on the street, are u gonna fall in love w/him to. And 2nd why would u tell a guy we should stop talking so that i can have time to get over u, u never tell ur left hand everything u tell ur right dum dum... u r volunteering to much info to this guy that doesn't want u!!! Move on
2006-12-29 11:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be a little bit embarassed about calling you "sexy" and being your friend, cuz guy friends aren't really supossed to say that. and maybe he's ashamed that he went after another girl. give him a little time and then go to him again and tell him that if he really doesn't want you to leave him, then he needs to start acting like it. i sounds to me like he's trying to push you away instead of bringing you closer. tell him to stop acting like a child becuz the world doesn't revolve around him and not everyone is going to bend to his will. and just becuz he's talking to another girl doesn't mean that you need to get jealous. trust him and i'm sure things will work out.
2006-12-29 11:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you're not the only one he's calling sexy. Men will call a hound dog sexy if they think they might get some. It's an insult that he came running back to you after his other "relationship" didn't work out.
2006-12-29 11:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you know you love him in a couple of weeks? PLUS he's been after another chick. Be a little more selective before you give your heart away. Ditch this guy and find someone who isn't just leading you on.
2006-12-29 11:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems like a piece of garbage. You obviously didn't know all his secrets or you would of realized what kind of guy he really is.(I mean come on-your brothers ex).Kick him to the curb and move on. Your sexy self deserves better.
2006-12-29 11:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. If i were you I would just move on and forget about him. Find someone who cares and respects you the way you are and wants a real relationship.
2006-12-29 12:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be only 12 years old. Get off the computer and play with your dolls. You're too young for all this drama.
2006-12-29 11:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋