Ladies only.?

Question

Every long term relationship I have ever had ended when she cheated. The last one I though was different, I was ready to get married until she she cheated as well. I though I could trust her, but now I have difficulty trusting any woman. I have never cheated in my life. Why do so many women see cheating as tolerable and how am I supposed to take any relationship seriously at this point? People say I'm too bitter over the past, but seriously I think I have a reason to be upset.

Answer 1

Go to the pet store and get a puppy. Dogs are very loyal.

Answer 2

its sad. Well, i would only advice not to generalise even now. I am a female and have never cheated on anyone ever. There were two incidents where i was cheated. But that never meant that i stopped trusting people.
Now, i am married to the world's most understanding and caring guy :)

GIve yourself a break and don't rush in.. let it happen on its own..

May be i am being optimistic, but i have a feeling if you just let it be for sometime, the next relation you get in will be absolutely perfect :)

Answer 3

Aww, I'm so sorry that girls have treated you that way. I'm not saying that you're not a good guy (infact, you might be the "nice" guy that girls think doesn't mind a little side dipping) but the next girl you date, make sure your relationship is spicy. If things start to get dull, surprise her by doing something special for her!

Also, maybe you need to start looking for other girls in general. Instead of going for the outgoing blonde, try giving a nice, refined girl a try. Hope this helps :)

Answer 4

I think you have a reason to be upset also. Not every girl will cheat. Take a look at the girls you fall for.

Answer 5

this might sound mean but here it goes...they must be getting tired of u...im not giving them reason or right to do wut they did...but that must be it...its wrong but....wut can u do...u need to try new things...try not to open your heart to much untill your ready!!!