Anytime I ask my girlfriend out, she always says she is tired, or she has something else do to. What should I do, it's starting to feel like we don't go out no more. It's been over a month.
2006-12-29 02:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Skin Conditions
sorry. for some reason i accidentally posted this under skin conditions...
2006-12-29 03:03:43 · update #1
she is seeng some one she doesn't like u simply don't call her of when she calls u don't pick it up if she has a personal problem and its gonna be solved after sometimes then she will call you if she doesn't like u ne more she won't even bother to call you...and besides as u chose ur category as SKIN CONDITIONS maybe has some skin condition :D
2006-12-29 03:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first do all those romantic stuffs a guy does.. like sending surprise gifts to her office and such. after all that if she still does not jump when you ask her out then she wants to break-up i guess or something major is bothering her.
if she is giving excuses, either it is because she is afraid or she is afraid of how you will react. so let her know that you will not be hurt or act weird and all if she wants to break up. also tell her that it is ok to be frank about how she feels. after all honesty is the best policy. give her that assurance, that safe feeling, only then will she stop holding back. and when she does say she wants to break up, keep cool and move on instead of acting weird. or she lets you know something is bothering her, take the initiative to fix it. talk to her and also let her know how you feel.
by the way, it is possible that she really is busy and that is why she is tired. i am just saying maybe she is telling the truth. so instead of asking her out - something that you want to do - why not give her something that she might need. give her a massage when she says she is tried. make her something or get her something to eat. oh and don’t ask her because she would probably refuse. just slide her into the chair and start working on her shoulders. use tender loving words while you do that.
and take a peek at askmen.com
2006-12-29 11:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by doingmybest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her n ask. If shes wanting out of the relationship i dont think she'll lie about it. It's better to know than assume bcuz it might be a big misunderstanding. If she confirms your thoughts then leave her alone n move on. Some females dont have the guts 2 say up front that the dont want to b with a guy anymore. Best of wishes!
2006-12-29 11:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by <3butterfly<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, sit her down and read her the question you have posted here. Substitute "you" for "she" and make the correct grammar adjustments. Only she can tell you what's going on. If you feel neglected, give her an ultimatum : either she goes out with or you find someone else to go out with, it's her call!
2006-12-29 11:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would take the hint & get a new girlfriend. It sounds like she is trying to let you down nicely instead of just breaking up with you.
2006-12-29 11:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask her why are you always tired and just tell her to tell you the truth maybe she is going out with someone else and you have to know you cant stay like that forever
2006-12-29 11:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by spongebob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if there is something wrong. It maybe that she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore. Whatever the reason. just ask her. That way, you can move on if she does not want to be in a relationship
2006-12-29 11:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Arizona Brit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her seriously if you both are still on
maybe she really is tired but feels for u
in that case u need to be patient
if she is tired of u get out and fast
2006-12-29 11:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by poison_ivy_sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....then just spend some more time being with her where she likes to be......instead of asking her to go some where with you......
she might not have interest to go anywhere!!!!
But you can slowly change her mind by being with her in a place where she wants to be.....
2006-12-29 11:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Dinesh k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she doen't want to spend time with you if she is always coming up with an excuse for no going anywhere with you.my advice to you is to find someone who is willing to do things and get more active with you
2006-12-29 11:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by deshatown_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋