IT HAS BEEN 4 MONTHS ALREADY THAT WE ARE NOT TOGETHER....NOW I DON'T CALL HIM AS OFTEN AS I USED TO.....
HE ALWAYS ANSWERS ME AND WHEN WE MEET WE HAVE A GREAT TIME BUT HE NEVER HAS THE INTENTION OF GETTING BACK TOGETHER... AND I FEEL BAD AGAIN AND MAD AT ME.. BUT 2 WEEKS .. AND I'M DOING IT AGAIN.
2006-12-29 02:57:43 · 13 answers · asked by Sabi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lose some weight and bang someone else
2006-12-29 02:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by phooey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
You simply stop calling him since you know he has no intentions of getting back with you. It's time to just let it go and move on with your life. He is more than likely being a gentleman and answering your calls. Even though you meet and do have a good time, it may be that for him being friends with you is sufficent. Do accept that it's over and leave him be. The last thing you want to do is become some stranged stalker and calling him all the time...
Be smart and a lady leave well enough alone at least right now you both are friends don't continue this nonsense and lose a friend. Back off, stop calling and move on you not even giving the guy time to even think if he wants you back without you dialing his digits.
Think about what your doing here.
Good luck
2006-12-29 11:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must understand that when you broke up it was over dont continue to fool your self think things are ok when there not if you still like him stay away all his doing is hurting you by just calling you or the other way around VALUE yourself and stop!! I would be mad at him for giving up on the relationship by saying there will be no intentions of getting back together. Next thing you know you will be out of his life once a hottie catches his attention.
2006-12-29 11:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've dealt with the same thing. You have to remember, you broke you for a reason. You keep doing the yo-yo thing cuz you're prob comfortable with him, and you know that he's always going to be there. Try to keep busy and keep your mind off him. You have to move on, or you're gonna miss out on the right guy. Plus, if he never has the intention of getting back together, why would you want someone who doesn't want you? Trust me, I know it's going to be hard at first, but once you get past the loneliness you'll be a lot happier.
2006-12-29 11:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky13 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sucks to go through what you're going through. I've been there myself, and with a guy who was totally not good for me or my self esteem. I used to get so mad at myself for being so needy and desperate. I did finally force myself to break away, for my own peace and sanity, and within one month, my thoughts about the whole situation really began to clear up for me. I realized it was not good love but twisted love based on twisted need and lack of self respect. In doing so, I eventually opened myself up for good love. It would do you some good to cut ties completely, at least for several months, so you can clear your head and think about whether you even want him in your life. Your life is all about you and your own happiness and contentedness. Know that you can't change him or anyone else-- you can only change yourself, the way you think about your life, what you will and wont have in it, what direction you should head in, all based on actual circumstances rather than fantasy. Only you can do that. Respect yourself enough to give yourself the gift of peaceful time away to collect yourself and reflect. You deserve it.
2006-12-29 11:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You stop calling your ex. Hello! move on! Meet other guys and have great times with them. Stop fixating on the one person who's not gonna take you back again. I know it sound harsh, but you got to get over him.
2006-12-29 11:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A "ex" is an ex for a reason. Get rid of his phone number and leave the guy alone. It's time to look to the future and find someone new.
2006-12-29 11:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by marilynn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just STOP CALLING HIM and go out with your own friends. Think of yourself for once and get some sanity back.
Over time you'll realise it's for the best and you'll be fine again. If he wants you back then hmm dunno u could get back together..
It depends on who dumped who and what lead to your breakup in the first place.. if it was falling out of love or betrayal it's not worth getting back together.
2006-12-29 11:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by lyssaria 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Delete his phone number from your phone. If he calls you, you will have it back.
2006-12-29 11:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
stop calling and/or answering.
2006-12-29 12:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋