It has only been 8 dates- we know each other from years ago but havent seen him for years. He is being VERY keen and wants to meet my mum already which has really got on my nerves!! Shall I
2006-12-29 02:20:48 · 26 answers · asked by Doris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was really nuts about him until he got sooo heavy. He wants me to meet all his mates and he has just suddenly got so serious. I'm not a tease thank you but be fair it is only a month!!!!
2006-12-29 02:28:00 · update #1
how old are you?****
2006-12-29 02:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could just let him know he's moving too fast. I'd say if he's already annoying you so much it might not be a good match. On the other hand, it's nice to have someone who is really "keen" on you! In your place I wouldn't bail out completely. Talk to him about it and see where things go from there.
2006-12-29 10:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hardly ever called you or kept you away from his friends you wouldn't like that. He is doing the opposite, which is the right thing and its turning you off. Why ? Why is it that when someone shows interest and is not up for playing all the games, others get turned off ? If he treated you badly you would probably be all over him. I say give it a chance. Its way better to end up with the guy that is fascinated by you then the guy your fascinated about. You will always get way better treatment with this guy.
2006-12-29 10:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. Don't live a lie. Follow your heart. What is your gut instinct telling you to do? If it is telling you to head for the hills then do it. If you feel this relationship might have a chance but this guy is moving too fast, then sit him down and tell him "Hey, I like you but things are moving a little bit too fast. We need to slow it down a little." All good relationships require good communication. I will be praying for you. Peace and God bless.
2006-12-29 10:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it 2 dates of thought. He has decided he adores you - does this bug you because you don't LIKE him or because you think it is too easy? You knew him from before and agreed to go on some dates with him right? So give it 2 more dates and think about it - if you honestly don't like him then bow out for HIS sake. If it because he is too "nice" and not someone you have to chase, then bow out for his sake too!!!
2006-12-29 10:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by PinkPrincessNerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bail? Just tell him you feel things are moving too quickly and you're uncomfortable but would like to see where things go if you take it slowly. If that doesn't work, bail.
2006-12-29 10:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lori E 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him he is being a bit heavy, if you bail out you could lose something that has the potential to be fantastic, and if he takes it well when you tell him you are definitely on to a good thing.
if , on the other hand he takes badly..cries, wonders what he has done wrong, appears clingy and hurt........RUN FOR THE HILLS AND HIDE!!!
2007-01-01 19:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by kelly f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and enjoy his company tell him so and say you'd like to go on meeting but as friends for a while - then you can see how it goes but with no pretending or misunderstanding involved.
2006-12-29 10:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't really like this bloke, why are you asking other people what you should do? Are you that hopeless? Stay with him if you can't decide. You deserve someone who loves and cares about you...sense you don't know the difference.
2006-12-29 10:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been a month, and you feel nothing like he does and he wants to meet your mom, call it off now. He thinks it is more than it is and you don't want to lead him on.
2006-12-29 10:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sara B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you bail out now. it sounds as though the whole situation is not what you want. why make things more difficult for yourself by trying to stick it out?
2006-12-29 10:28:18 · answer #11 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋