i am going insane please help me?

Question

i am very distant from my parents ( not geographically sorry for the bad English in that too )

i do not believe in god

i have depressive anxiety and i think its because i do not have any form of guidance

i know right from wrong but i can do whatever i want at home
i have everything i want but theres always something missing

can anyone relate?
any ideas on how to help?

Answer 1

Grab a pencil and two pieces of paper.
Ready? Here goes.

Page 1: Make a list of ten things you want to do in your life (visit Irish castles, get a college degree, learn to scuba dive...). Now, put it in your wallet. Refer to it often. This will help you focus on a direction in your life instead of meandering like a ship without a rudder. (Remember .. ships are safe in port, but that is not what ships are for! Unfurl your sails and GO! )

Page 2: Make three columns labeled '6 Months,' '1 Year,' and '5 Years.' Now, think about where you want to be in six months. Put at least three items in this column to help you decide a course of action.

ANYTHING in the world is possible. You just have to WANT TO badly enough.

Now, do the same thing with columns two and three. Where do you want to be in one year .. five years.

Once you have this figured out .. DO ONE THING EVERY DAY TOWARD YOUR GOAL. That's all...just one thing, even if it is researching the best scuba equipment or surfboard for that vacation.

I know this seems a little odd, but trust me...it works. I was at rock bottom (that's when things get worse faster than you can lower your standards). I made these two lists; my Five Year goal was to have a house deep in the Missouri woods..quite a stretch from homeless in Southern California. I made it in THREE years.

You can do this .. keep me posted on you progress..I care!

Answer 2

i think you lack love and purpose in life.get closer to your parents.they are your first relations and will love you no matter what.have some specific goal in life and think that you are living for a purpose and that you are here to achieve something.it need not be something great but must give you a feeling of satisfaction.don't do anything that makes you feel guilty as it will leave behind a very unsettling feeling and a more unhappier you.just be optimistic and enjoy life,it is all your mindset.GOOD LUCK AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

You need some focus and purpose in life. Try thinking about good things that you can do to help others. It does not have to be big stuff, but start doing random acts of kindness like holding doors, greeting people on the street, helping people with packages, picking up trash from the street.

Answer 4

dont mean to be nasty, but it sounds like u r to spoilt. my wife suffers the same illness(diagnosed) because she cant do enough for everyone. make your own guidance, how old are you, live life! Stop blaming it on everyone else, good luck.

Answer 5

GET SOME CHEESE FOR THAT WHINE AND THROW A PITY PARTY