You say that we suffocate you with our love then complain about us being inconsiderate of your feelings..... What do you actually want..... ?
2006-12-29 01:56:23 · 39 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be treated nice but do not want a lap dog someone who is always around us,
2006-12-29 01:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad part is that women don't know what they want. They are driven by a natural instinct to be attracted to the strongest mate to produce the strongest offspring. The problem is most of the "strongest mates" or what appears to be is the typical a$$h*le. This leaves most women bitter and frustrated over relationships, continually persuing the some jerks and not understanding why they are treated so badly. Then a nice guy comes along who honestly cares and she has very little trust because of the way she has been treated in the past.
I kow this answer just s*cks, but its unfortunately the truth. The woman's emotional baggage is the burden men have to carry.
2006-12-29 02:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry too much at a certain age/maturity level girls start to realize that those are not the guys they want. It takes a little bit for most girls and some don't even go through it. Most girls like the whole bad boy asshole because they think he can protect them and be there for them than the average joe. Which in most cases is not true from personal experience I have dated a few assholes in my time. They will learn their lesson sooner or later and hopefully won't have to learn it like I did by getting hit by my x. You just have to either hold out or find a girl who has already been through her asshole stage and go with that.
You have to understand that alot of girls my age at least think of a guy suffocating her with love as a not so cute thing my roommate considers it borderline stalker/freak just be your self and the harder you look for a girl the harder it will be to find that girl you are looking for!
Good luck!!
2006-12-29 02:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by teacuptiff86042002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want a sensitive man but a man nonetheless.
Moderation is key.
Be a manly man but don't be filled with pride.
Be sensitive but be strong when it counts.
Consider her feelings but take charge when you need to.
Shower her with love but don't drown her.
Consider what they have to say but make a good decision.
Trust her and show her you can be trusted.
Listen to what she has to say and acknowledge it with understanding. Truly consider what she is telling you. If its wrong then so be it, such is the nature of feelings. But do not disregard those feelings.
When you do an say things to her, consider how she will receive those words. Think before you speak.
Buy her a rose one day but not every day.
Write her a poem, doesn't matter if you're good or not, they'll love the sentiment. Just don't do it every day.
Takes time to figure women out but it is not difficult to please them once you figure it out.
Love your girl like you love yourself. Protect her and help her to be secure in your relationship.
I'd say when a girl feels comfortable to burp, fart, or sing silly songs in front you then you're doing good.
2006-12-29 02:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Emperor Insania Says Bye! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dodgy thing, always, lumping half the human race into a category then trying to speak for them.
Speaking personally, I would say what I want is what most men or women want - to be treated with respect and consideration, to be loved, to be given the room to grow.
As for the as*hole side of things, women and women tend to marry versions of their parents. If they have behaved badly to one another, the chances of marrying a disaster area are high. Sadly, all it takes is one as*hole to generate misery down to the children and grandchildren - this is certainly a pattern in my family.
2006-12-29 02:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by tagette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suffocate us with your love ? Sheesh, I WISH I was suffocated with love. It's so hard to get guys to show their feelings. That is why I call guys inconsiderate... But if they actually express how they feel, why bother to call them that ?
2006-12-29 02:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Doll. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a man that can let his guard down and actually care about the things he says, or does. Men never show they care if you've had a bad day or your stressed out over something. Or how about a little more appreciation for the things women do for you.
2006-12-29 01:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women love as$holes. They take it as a personal challenge to see if they can tame us. I am a real jerk, I get drunk every night, start fights, and go to jail all the time, and I have dozens of numbers of girls I can call that will come over, let me get my groove on, tell me they love me, and don't take offense when I run them off in the morning.
2006-12-29 02:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by white.devil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women are so contradicting. You are right , they want guys to be caring and loving but they want a bad boy too. They complain if your nice and they complain if your not. I started getting more women when I decided I wasn't playing the gentleman games. I told them what I thought and did what i wanted to do with other women and guess what, I had women fighting over me. So, i pretty much think they like *** holes.
2006-12-29 02:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Play the game man. It sucks because it sounds like your a nice guy. I learned the same way but after a few rounds you can kinda of see when you should be nice and when you should be a dick. Don't always be available then pretend like everything is ok. Thats is one way of getting them mad but wanting more.
2006-12-29 02:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind being suffocated with love.......better than being inconsiderate.
2006-12-29 02:01:03 · answer #11 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋