if i meet a guy and really like him, he dumps me or treats me rough i want to meet someone nice who treats me well, sick of al this can a person look too desperate. my daughter said i was desperate as i spend hours on a dating site sometimes.
2006-12-29 01:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Denise, you don't even like yourself. How do you expect anyone else to like you? You sound like a self hater. Would you be a lot of fun to be with? Don't depend on other people for your happiness. You'll lose everytime. And guys will use you and lose you as fast as they always have. Be your own best friend before you try to bring anyone else into your misery.
2006-12-29 01:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're desperate. I believe you are searching for a certain type of man that will cherish you as the princess you are. Maintain personal hygiene and establish some confidence in yourself because when a man gets passed the looks he will notice your personality. Remember, men will usually make the first move and you have the right to accept or reject based on their impression on you. Even playing a little hard to get will drive some men to pursue you all the more. Also, there is nothing wrong with using dating sites, but check out different things like singles groups, music venues, or etc. Don't worry, you will capture some man's eye and he'll be "desperate" to know you, liking you from the start.
2006-12-29 19:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get away from those dating sites. Those people on those sites can't get dates because of their personalities. You need to get out there and be seen and heard. The only way you are going to meet someone who will treat you great is if you talk to him face to face and "feel him out". You can't do this when you are on the phone with someone from those dating sites. People lie. You should try to become friends first so you can see if they are a good person or not. I wish you the best of luck and hope you stay away from those dating sites. Your daughter is right, it does make you look as desperate as those people on there. Thank you.
2006-12-29 10:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really know the feeling of no one being interested in me. When I stopped looking and made up my mind to just be alone that is when I met my husband. Most of the time we dated I just figured it would be a fun time and nothing more. Less than a year later we married. That was 20 years ago. Stop looking and just get out and do stuff. I believe that is the best way to meet someone. Don't go out with anyone that has a reputation of treating women poorly. Skip those guys.
2006-12-29 09:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself and stop being desperate.. some guys hate that while some will take advantage of your desperation. Calm down and enjoy your life with your daugther and im sure someone will show up you will treat you like the way you want to be treated.
2006-12-29 10:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with dateing sites but to much time there isnt healthy>>>go out in the world some and start learning to know and luv yourself again
2006-12-29 10:07:38
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act like your not really that interested! i had a friend do that to he wound up being bi-polar. he is either up or down, depending on how its going for him in the dating area. do not let this dictate how you feel about yourself. as far as children i have 3 grown ups , most of the time children are your worst critic. believe in yourself, you sound like you have a wonderful amount of qualities to give to the right person who deserves it. do not sell yourself short-- go after what is right for you. belive in yourself and all will work out for the best. you just have to believe what you are is going to be alright for someone else list the pros and cons of yourself and you will see that you are the better person and probably the person that treats you rough has major problems themselves. you deserve better.
2006-12-29 10:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be interesting in order for someone to be interested in you. What do you do besides eat, sleep, and go to work? Get into a hobby or start some sort of fun activity.
I dated a woman that I ended up dumping simply because she really had nothing going on in her life except for her job. And being that she really had nothing to talk about, and everything I would talk about would go clear over her head, I saw no point in continuing the relationship.
2006-12-29 10:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hours on a dating site, no, i do that when I'm bored sometimes. Desperate? Yeah, that chases men away very quickly. Men like the chase so as hard as it is to say "call me any night this week I'm free and I'd love to see you" let him come to you.
2006-12-29 09:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have this crazy idea. Get your *** off the computer and go out into the real world. Join a club or start a hobby or take a class.
2006-12-29 10:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋