okay so i've been going out with this girl for about 8 months. she went on this senior (highschool) retreat thing to Kairos and i was afraid she'd come back "changed" because everyone does. well, she promised me she loved me and nothing bad would happen.. when she came back, she claimed to be "changed" and broke up with me. (keep in mind we were crazy in love for about 7 months. we had our fights and problems but always worked them out). so i was freaked and cried and called my friends and stuff. but then the next night she called me and told me she didn't mean it. since then she's been like that. but she tells me she WANTS me to win her back. i keep messing up somehow.. and she keeps calling me everynight telling me she loves me and just to talk to me for hours. but she never talks to me during the day or comes over like she used to. and like she's really mean to me sometimes. and others all she wants to do is talk to me. like, is this worth it? honestly where do i go from here?
2006-12-29 01:44:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude as once so wisely put by another
Ditch the B1*ch!!
Seriously, tell her to either treat you with respect or leave you alone. This is a really scary thing to do, but right now she owns you. The balance of power you both shared in the beginning has now been given completely to her. No relationship can sustain that imbalance for long. So talk to her, if she does not want to listen then walk away and have your heart broken. As another wise person said, if you love someone let them go, if they come back then it was really love.
Hope this helps
Chris aka BoobBoo
2006-12-29 01:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by boobboo77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it is dont talk to her because tahts what my ex was doing but the winning her back part is a lie. she has already moved on with a new guy why she is calling you at night is after she is done hanging out with him and its the guilt that makes her call you. she feels bad for everything she did but she doesnt want to change it for the world. i know from past experiance going through the same thing. only get a phone call when her new guy is being mean to her or she gets bored, cant talk to him.
2006-12-29 01:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by lilpimptk101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to continue being miserable then you should keep playing that girls' game. Otherwise, you need to dump her. She has either found someone else or she is thinking about it. You shouldn't have to "win" her back sense you didn't "lose" her to anyone. She sounds like she is playing with you and you are allowing her to do this to you. Either dump her or continue to allow her to use you. Thank you and good luck.
2006-12-29 01:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, i'm just as confused as you are right now.
2006-12-29 01:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, go find another girl, my god!
2006-12-29 01:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋