I know it sounds real shallow (because it is) but I really like my guy friend and I can't stop dreaming about him, and we talk non-stop but he annoys my friends so much that they constantly talk about him. We were dating for a month but I broke things off for personal reasons but now things between us are going great! We constantly talk and hang out, but my friends don't know... Wheneer he gets close to asking me out again I freak... I need help please! What should I do?
2006-12-29 01:41:40 · 28 answers · asked by .j,kjhgd,jghf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the thing is if I go out with him all my friends would feel akward... (i use to make fun of him too) my friends said they'd never drop me or anything but in a way they sorta would (we're in highschool think about it) If things dont work out with this guy I am going to be alone with friends who feel very akward around me... not to mention the teasing that I know will take place while I date him...
2006-12-29 01:47:04 · update #1
What I AM worried about is my friends say he's no good that he'll ruin my social status (i guess u could say I'm kinda popular but I'm not an A--, I promise) but he is an amazing guy who is sooooo sweet and he never ever makes me fel uncomfortable or akward...
2006-12-29 01:51:16 · update #2
If everyone else hates him then they must see something you don't. You like your friends because you all have something in common or have a common bond. If they don't share the bond or common interests with your guy friend, then maybe you're just feeling lust or that fun part of when you first start a relationship. The same things that annoy your friends will eventually annoy you. Not to mention, your friends will stop coming around and then you'll be alone when you break it off with the dude.
2006-12-29 01:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mother was a wise woman. She always told me that love it blind. You may be just see and feel what you want to see and feel...you like the guy. But if your friends don't think he's good for you - I'm sure there's a good reason. I dated someone for a while and then broke up. All my friends hated this guy. But I still loved him. We started dating again but I didn't tell anyone. Well, things didn't work out and my frineds were right...he wasn't a good person to me and I now wasted more time with someone that I should have never given a second chance to.
Just remember...boyfriends come and go...friends and family are forever. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Good Luck!
2006-12-29 01:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Michele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....but will he really make you happy, or satisfy a curiosity? Why things are going great is because he is "Acting" for you. Your friends are usually right and care about you. How many times have you seen friends go out with people you knew weren't right and they continued and it worked out badly.
Women, by nature, like jerks when they are young.
Do you think they are jealous or is he really a jerk? Do they have your best interest at heart? Are their concerns the way he treats you? Do you think you will alienate your friends and when you find out it is over will you end up with no friends and no man?
2006-12-29 01:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Computer Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont worry about what your friends say ... when i met my husband all my friends kept asking me why i was going out with such a geek .. ironically after he and i got married which has now been almost 13 years ago they decided to get married few years later and all those friends that thought he was so wrong for me are now getting divorces .. dont let your friends choose whats right for you .. You will have to decide if he is right for you or not by dating him and mabey you see somthing in him that noone elce sees thats usually what happens when you meet your true love ... they annoy the hell out of your friends . but your friends have to live with the man that is right for you
2006-12-29 01:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by jazieyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 15:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends are really your friends they would support any decision you make. Be the bigger person and do what feels right in your heart. If you truly like this guys and as I was reading it seems like you do; then make it known. You will really find out who your true friends are after that. I hope that helps!
2006-12-29 05:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by shy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to wait until you are a little older before choosing if you want to date a guy no one else likes or not. When you have to worry about what other people think, then you aren't ready for the advice given. Thank you.
2006-12-29 01:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes you happy and you like him just keep on going out with him. it does not mean you are going to get married him tomorrow, maybe there is something your friends see in him that they dont like him and maybe you dont see it now, but if you keep seeing him maybe you will find out what it is that your friends dont like about him & you will feel the same way. as your friends they should just deal with the situation and continue to be your friends no matter what. remember friends come and go and boyfriends too. so you have to do what makes you happy no matter what people think.
2006-12-29 01:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by shaquie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and learn to make your own decisions. Apparently you have no sense of judgment of character. You'll probably end up in an abusive relationshio and trying to figure out how to change the guy.
2006-12-29 01:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you about myself. I'm 190 Pounds, at 5'11, Athletic build type of body, and I belonged to every Cliche in high school, I was a nuetral type of person. I love to socialize, and my cell phone never leaves my pocket unless its in my hand.
Now let me tell you about the girl i fell in love with.
Shes 90 pounds, shorter then me, shes totally shy. not exactly athletic, and didnt even belong to any cliche.
People kept saying to me, how do you fall in love with her?!?!
Yes they ridicule me about it, but you know what, beyond all that, if you hit it off with the person you love, you feel some kind of magical feeling inside.
Its really nice to have someone you can shower with your love. Spoil them, take care of them n such. What im saying to you is, F*** them, and do what you want.
2006-12-29 01:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋