Is being to moral and sensible a good thing or a bad thing in a relationship?

Question

Or is that just boring and predictable? It’s just I can be to moral and sensible for my own good sometimes. Do women like this in a guy?

Answer 1

It depends what kind of morals you have, and what you consider sensible. If you're like me, being in a relationship in the first place is not sensible, and my morals are REALLY f*cked up.

Answer 2

Being moral and sensible is a good thing. The problem is that most people don't care about other's feelings, nor do they know how to handle a relationship in this day and age. While being moral is great and I support it, that doesn't mean it will get you anywhere when it comes to relationships. Its a very screwed up thing to deal with, but unfortunately that's the world we live in.

Answer 3

I would never date a guy whose morals or behavior are to the point of being far fetched. Morals and being sensible are GOOD things, but TOO MUCH of either is a disaster. Especially if you dont find someone who shares those same morals or sensibility.

Answer 4

My immediate response is to say no, you can't be too moral, but I have come across both men and women who have done this within a relationship and basically got into horrendous situations because of it.
It seems to me is that the only thing to do is talk it over with someone whose opinion you trust or try imagining someone coming to you for advice.
I know what you mean though - I have a partner who is really dishonest both with me and himself, and it has been tempting just to turn round and tell him I think he is a w***er. However, coping with him has made me stronger, which is some consolation.
As a woman, I would find it extremely attractive in a man to know he has principles and thinks things through.

Answer 5

Women love it because u have to be moral and sensible. Its a very good thing

Answer 6

I love that my honey has morals. However we do shake things up everyonce in a while. I tell him that someone flirted or I see someone flirt with him. We pretend not to know each other and meet for the first time. Predictable (knowing that you are with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with) does not have to be boring.

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with you being sensible, but I can see how in a relationship, it can be a little boring. I prefer men who are spontaneous and like taking risks, that's what makes them manly and interesting and it keeps the relationship exciting. You can change the way you are simply by being slightly unpredictable and spontaneous, women love it.

Answer 8

One good thing about that is that is you won't get the sluts because you would need to be more... uhh, firey, adventurous.

Personally, your the kinda guy that i'd ideally go for, but everyone is different in their tastes.

You'll find someone, no doubt about it, but maybe, if you're that insecure about your personality then every now and again just have a bit of fun with your girl. Make the relationship interesting.

Answer 9

I am moral and sensible...... It doesnt mean that you are automatically boring..... Boring people were born boring ...... Generally bullied at school for being boring and are boring the rest of their lives..... If you fit into this category then I am sorry but there is nothing you can do.... It's in ya Jean's ( Gene's ) sorry your Cord's......LOL HA HA

Women dont like boring men unles they are hung like whales......

Answer 10

Having morals is a good thing, but you have to let loose every once in a while.