2006-12-29 01:34:56 · 8 answers · asked by kumaar07 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Software
Ye kan't suckseed if ye catn spelz, so go back to school.
Actually, everyone has it in them to be great. Greatness isn't something reserved for "some special people". Einstein's mother was told that he was "very slow" and might be retarded, yet he "succeeded".
First thing you need to do is NOT accept mediocrity from yourself, (like your spelling) and the next thing you need to do is stop feeling sorry for yourself. I admit, if you live in Africa making $500.00 a year, with half the people around you dying of AIDS and your country's in Civil War, then, maybe, just maybe, you can feel sorry for yourself. What's sad is that most of those people, in the middle of all that strife and poverty, are probably happier than you are. That shows ingratitude towards your creator. Do you really think he appreciates that? He gave you SOOOO much, (I mean you DO have a computer right) and yet, you're ingrateful. Success begins with giving thanks for what you have, then setting your sights on more. I remember 10 years ago giving a review to 2 of my employees, making the same amount of money. The first one got a $1.00 an hour raise because he was always helpful towards the customers and went "above and beyond" the call of duty. The other got nothing, plus a warning, that If I got any more complaints from customers he would be fired. He often told customers, that "He doesn't get paid enough to do what they wanted him to do". You're either in the game or your not, and it's tough to be in the game if your feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-12-29 01:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by juanfermin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, no matter how rich or successful a person is, s/he still feels insecure and the urge to succeed and reach newer goals is always there. That is what life is all about. Without this there would not be any acheivers.
Try taking pleasure in smaller acheivements. Eventually, you will reach where you want to be. First of all, do not compare yourself with anyone...each one has their own positives and negatives. I know all of this seems very hard to do. Please do not give up though. Always, no matter how sad you are, try to have a lingering smile on your face, once you smile, it tells the mind that it should be cheerful...Try it..it works with me.
The best cure for depression is excercise. Any form of excercise that you like, be it playing some sport or just working out in a gym. Please do bear in mind that you have to have that activity for atleast an hour a day. I am sure you will be fine and before you even know it you will be successful.
By the way , success is a very relative term. Each one has their own definition of success. Just sit and try to find out what you define it as and try to take it one step at a time and one day at a time and work towards it. Success does not come overnight.
Good luck and enjoy life
2006-12-29 10:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by SP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, I don't think spelling ha smuch to do with anything - alot of intelligent people can't spell. I'm an IT student learning Network Administration and half of the students who are brainy as hell have issues with spelling and grammar.
Anyhow, I think that you should get help with your depression in order to succeed. Honestly, without getting out of the depression spell, you won't be able to do much because there is that constant feeling of sadness and unworthiness.
I was depressed 2 years ago. I was at the point of suicide and I didn't even want to wake up in the morning. I stayed in bed ALL day. My motivation went away ... as well as any desires to do anything on a daily basis. The things that used to be fun to me were no longer fun.
I'm no longer depressed ... I have the will to live, desire to succeed, and goals in my life.
PLEASE get help for your depression!
2006-12-29 09:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by wtfustaringat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know each & every person have faith in GOD , because of all r the childs of almighty and equaly created. U just think positevly about u that u r the best creation of almighty & u done each & every type of work. Just learn some +ve thinking books , like "You Can Win" etc & i assure u r winner in ur life & u succeced in ur software field.
2006-12-29 09:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by DREAMERS ARE ACHIEVERS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a right Teacher and try to control ur mind.
2006-12-29 11:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u chat with me i m a very bindaas boy u don't get deppresed
i m their to make u come out of depresion
2006-12-29 09:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by rushu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try yoga,meditation or self hypnosis.works.get info off the net.or consult a physician.
2006-12-29 09:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by sameeha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just believe in urself..........and have faith in god..and keep hardworking
2006-12-29 10:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋