am older guy and single that am acquainted to a younger woman from a job we did together. we talk and we laugh and we seem to have some common interest. she no longer works there. she just had a baby and is single mom. well, i said bye to her and wished her luck and maybe we can have dinner sometime soon. she responded " I will like that very much, Hun " The problem is she 15 years younger than me. do you think it wise for me to try to start something with her, or leave it alone?
2006-12-29 01:09:11 · 18 answers · asked by urstory 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why does age difference matter .. i mean unless she's like 17. What do you have to lose all she can is no. Right?
2006-12-29 01:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by dani girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it, if her new baby doesn't bother you, and the fact that she's a Mom now. I think you're reading too much into the "Hun" thing, but you never know. What could it hurt to have a meal with her? Might be fun!! 15 years is NOT a problem, as long as she's over 18.
2006-12-29 09:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the story with the father of the child? Was she in love and he left her? Or is she just a sl*t?
I would chase after a girl that had no kids (unless she was a widow or divorced - those are different circumstances).
Calling you hun doesn't mean anything. I have a female friend that calls all her friends "hun".
Maybe you can get to know her and see what kind of person she is, then decide for yourself.
2006-12-29 09:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner and conversation is a good way to figure out what is going on. From an "older" female perspective she may be looking for a way out of the situation she is in. Are you ready to be a daddy to two kids? Sorry but I call people hon all the time and all it means is I like you as a friend. As for the answer to your dinner invite it might just mean she wants a free meal.
2006-12-29 09:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by vixenofthesouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom and stepdad were 15 yrs apart, and they had a very long lasting relationship, until my mom passed away, and he was the best stepdad I have ever known...He took in 3 children, and had 3 of his own from a previous marriage, and then they had 2 together... Little more than the Brady Bunch, but it was a life I'd never trade for anything. You could make the difference in that child's life and hers, and yours... Go see if it is right 4 u... Best wishes
2006-12-29 09:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By chance, is she from Baltimore? Because calling people "Hun" is very much a part of the local dialect here. It does not mean anything special--in other words, it doesn't necessarily mean that she likes you as more than a friend.
2006-12-29 09:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number and if you start something with her--dinner is definetly a good place to start. Be friends first and see what develops--good luck--Hun!
2006-12-29 09:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Hard question without knowing all the details. But the word itself may not mean anything. I would only suggest you proceed carefully. This is a big age gap and you may be acting out of lonliness. Think it over. Keep it light. Use your common sense.
2006-12-29 09:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun doesnt always mean what u think it does she could have just said hun so what, but if u like her go for it.
2006-12-29 09:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by LADY CJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee is almost 15 years older than me and we are completely happy together. I say if you are both single, go for it. Could be the best move you ever make.
2006-12-29 09:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋