If you act like a B**** he wants you, but if you are sweet he stays a distance?

Question

Cunfusing but so true, WHY?

Answer 1

10 Reasons Why Men Prefer Bitchy Women

1. "The worst thing a woman can do is see a guy every night of the week. That's how she becomes his good-time girl on his 'reserve list.' What will happen is, the guy will start coming over at nine o'clock and then he'll leave by ten-thirty. If he gets access or what he wants from her anytime he wants it, he won't have to lift a finger to keep it going."

2. "Men are competitive. When he buys a car that is a limited-edition model, he feels like he has something special. Guys in the street who race cars usually race for pink slips, because they want to win, conquer and take the other vehicle. That carries over to women. A woman who is easy won't scratch his competitive itch. When she stops expressing her opinion and starts agreeing with everything he says, that's usually when a man starts to feel bored."

3. "A woman should never go looking for him or chase him down at three different places where he said he might be having a drink. If he says, 'Either I'll be at the Cheesecake Factory or some bar on 26th,' don't try to track him down. If you want to be his 'steady,' let him come track you down."

4. "My fiancée was the first woman to put me in my place. She constantly reminds me, 'Hey, nobody's forcing you to stay.' If I tried to BS my way out of a situation, she'd say, 'Let me save you the time and energy. Don't give me that s**t, because I ain't buying it.' I know if she caught me cheating she'd smack me over the head with a frying pan. And I respect her more than any woman I've ever known."

5. "If he can sum you up in one sentence, he'll be bored."

6. "Confidence is when you don't try to interpret or overly process everything that you are observing out loud. It prevents the relationship from progressing on a normal course. For example, every time I gave this woman flowers, she would remind me that her ex stopped bringing her flowers. What she really wanted to ask was whether I'd keep doing it in the future. That made me feel like she didn't really enjoy the flowers or appreciate the present moment with me."

7. "A woman shouldn't say, 'You don't call me enough,' or, 'You never tell me you love me.' As a woman, your best asset is to be unpredictable. He should never be able to figure you out. When he can always predict what you are going to do next, you've lost him as a long-term partner. He'll look for someone else whom he can't understand or control."

8. "If she feels strongly about something, she'll have a backbone. This woman is the woman he respects. Not a 'melba toast' cracker that crumbles with very little pressure."

9. "You have to seem like you aren't giving yourself fully. 'Here I am. Take me.' Men want to be kept guessing. Think about it. When a guy picks out a movie, he wants to be on the edge of his seat from the very beginning. If someone doesn't lose a limb or get shot and buildings aren't blown up all within the first 20 minutes, he'll think he got cheated out of 20 bucks."

10. "A woman shouldn't even crack a joke about marriage. I was on a second date with a girl, and we are both from Ireland. Back home we have a saying, 'If you kiss me you are going to have to marry me.' If you have the desire to get married, never let a man know that up front. If you do, it's the same as handing him a manual and telling him exactly how to dangle a carrot and play on your weaknesses."

Answer 2

The only reason guys act more interested when your being a ***** is because if your being mean they think your being totally honest. If your just being sweet guys don't know how to read you. It's the attitude we like, Just the thought of you not holding back and speaking the truth.

Answer 3

I would say this is less of a question and more of a statement.
More or less the statement is true for mostly younger/immature guys who desire the complication and easy out of a turbulent relationship. If this is the case for a particular guy and your not looking for that kind of relationship I would say to look else where and give him a couple of years.

Answer 4

It's absolutely true. Guys like women who give them a challenge. It makes their competitive side come out. If they can win her over, it's a huge boost to the ego. If they see right away that a woman likes them, they get bored easily because of how little effort it took.

Answer 5

Men like a challenge. They want the chase. My mother always said that the worthy ones will chase you. If after a certain amount of time, he is still distancing, he's not for you.

Answer 6

I guess when you're acting like a b****, you're pretty much playing hard to get. I think guys really like the catch, you know? They think that nice girls are too easy and are too common. Although in reality, it's quite the opposite. Only guys truly know, but this is my theory.

Answer 7

NO NO NO, u women are wrong, men don't care if u are a ***** or sweet all he care about if u loved him too/back, men likes when a women fall in love with him and if u are sweet it is even better, men like beautiful smart and sweet women, not bitches, but if a ***** loved him he surly will love her too, u women don't know how to deal with men, it is all about u, think of them for a change!!!!!!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Yeah, I agree with you completely! I'm have been dubbed the "nice girl", mainly because I chooe not to sleep around. Nice guys seems to go for the girls who are the exact opposite of me. However, all the bad boys are attracted to me and I can't stand it! My goodness, if I get at least one good boy to be attracted to me then I will be SOOO happy.

Answer 10

He likes a B****y types of girls lol. I think he likes the chase and likes aggressive girls. But if you like him then you should talk to him and try to make it clear to him that you don't like games especially mind games. Then see what his reaction will be. Good Luck hun and hope this helps. Tc