okay., I have a little problem.. obviosly.. See I'm still in lvoe wiht my ex boyfiend.. But I don't know if he still has feelings for me.. an any way.. as a friend girlfreind.. whateverr. But I want him to know How i feel.. but I'm sort of afraid of the response he will give..
also.. I'm not sur ehow to tell him.. I mena I want it to come from the heart,, but i dont want it to sound liek a sappy romance movie ending.. Do you think I should even tell him? Or keep to myself and not get hurt, or interfeer with his life or what?
Casue I am just so confusd right now about alot of stuff.. and I jujst don't know what to tell him.. or if I should tell him..
2006-12-29 00:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go ahead and talk to him.
You need to tell him what you feel.
2006-12-29 00:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you are coming from. I would make it be a person to person talk. That way you and he can share all the details. Maybe you just still need your space and if that is the case then you have that. I would also be worried about it being an actual relationship. If you kind of split up then you both are able to start seeing new people. Just talk to him about it seriously and see where the situation goes from that.
2006-12-29 09:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey..i was exactly in the same situation as you!! me and my ex broke up half a yr ago and i got soo upset cause we've been together for yrs..well..i really wanna let him know that i still love him alot..and guess what i did? i went over to his house and told him everything that was in my heart..i didn't care about what his response would be because i need to get it off my chest..i don't wanna have any regrets of not telling him what i've always wanted to say..and after saying those things..i felt i've done the right thing and i have no regrets whatsoever..i ended that chapter of my life feeling that i've accomplished something..so if you feel like you wanna let him know about how you're feeling..go ahead...do what you wanna do because life is too short..really..
best wishes =)
2006-12-29 09:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your never going to be in a serious relationship until your willing to put yourself out there and risk being hurt. The best thing you can do is just tell him how you feel, sure you might not get the answer you want, but at least you'll know where you stand and not have to wonder anymore.
Go for it.
2006-12-29 09:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by SLASH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write to him, via email or text or something. Write it down for yourself first, and that'll help you figure out how you feel. Be honest. Are you really still in love with this particular guy, or are you just not wanting to be alone? Tell him how you feel, and even tell him that you're not sure how to tell him. Actually, just write to him what you wrote in your question. Be authentic. People respond to authenticity - even if it sounds like a "sappy, romantic movie ending" :).
2006-12-29 09:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandra L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're already hurting it sounds like, so just tell him and flip a coin. He could go either way, but at least you'll know and won't regret no telling him.
2006-12-29 09:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by from me to you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you loved him like you say you do, it would be easy for you to just tell him. No matter what he thinks, you still tell him and whatever he says is his opinion and feelings and they matter too but you still love him no matter what. That's called true love, unconditional love. At least he knows how you feel. Good Luck.
2006-12-29 08:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could help you im going trough what you are why dont you talk to one of your closest pals or your mom i always talk to my mom were like buddies well i really hope that helped you and i really hope i get best answer for this that would make my day well good luck
2006-12-29 09:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by stacy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he already knows how you feel. if he planned on doing something about it, he already would have done so. i mean, you've been together, chances are he broke up with you, not the other way around, chances are he still knows you care about him. why not share this with your girlfriends instead?
2006-12-29 09:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Nick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should go back to primary school and learn how to spell then once that's achieved, learn to construct sentences.....
2006-12-29 09:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋