My ex is very very stubborn and we haven't talked in a month. We broke up a month ago over something stupid. I love her alot and I feel that I lost my best friend. I've emailed her several times and I even bought her a nice gift for Christmas and she didn't even thank me for it. I heard nothing on Christmas day from her. Everyone says Let it go, Let her Go but when you love someone, it's not easy. So, here is the question. How do I get her to talk to me again? I haven't emailed her or called her since Christmas. I know Time heals all wounds but I just want to be on speaking terms if nothing more.
2006-12-29 00:53:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just give her some time.
2006-12-29 00:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to grasp at straws, there's always the possibility that she went out of town and forgot to tell you...but realistically where would she go where there are no phones or e-mail? The far more likely possibility is that she's already over you, maybe even already moved on, and she's just waiting for you to catch up and quit acting desperate so she can have a reasonable conversation with you and let you know what time it is. Christmas is over, and if the girl was going to get sentimental it would've happened by now. Find someone who loves you back and you'll wonder what you ever saw in this girl.
2006-12-29 09:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by trk_drvr_otr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point she probably feels like you are harrassing her. You may feel it was stupid what you broke up over but obviously it wasn't too menial or you would still be together. Whatever it was meant enough to her to leave you, or she was looking for an excuse to leave you. Either way, she wanted out. Now, you hanging on and constantly trying to get in contact with her will only driver her further away. Give her space, let her heal. If she wants to come back she will otherwise you will need to accept the fact that it is over. Holding on to someone who has already let go makes it more difficult to heal. Don't be the crazy ex that won't go away. If you ever want her to talk to you again.
2006-12-29 09:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does no one understand on this site about communication? Hey all Dr Phil or Dr Laura are great sites to visit. STOP bothering her, I had to learn the hard way which honestly I feel like the STUPIDEST person on earth. When you are trying to communicate (which it sounds like you are) and she's not responding back, take it as a BIG, Im not intrested. Spare yourself! Find someone who wants to be with you, because soon she will not even grace your thoughts any longer, I promise.
2006-12-29 08:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by laura k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have broken up with her if you still loved her....or if she broke up with you then i think it is time to move on...date other girls or let her see that you're totally over her. This usually gets the girl's attention and if she likes you still, she will talk to you again. But ask yourself this, is she really worth the effort?
2006-12-29 09:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by phillylady4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I know for myself the best way to get someone to talk to you is to ignore them...if they miss you enough and they realize that they want you back in their life they will coem back to you. If your not up for that option I would go to your ex and say that you do not want to lose them as a friend, companion, etc. That it hurts you to see your "friendship" fail. See what they say. I hope it works...just be honest and I'm sure your ex will respond.
2006-12-29 08:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know who you sound like??............Forest Gump. but he was successful......... but that was a movie....in real life guys like you two are a bunch of losers in the end. I'm not trying to offend you but if you turn your whole energy towards her and she turns you down in front of every one like that specially in Christmas she doesn't care about you and she is most likely not interested in you anymore. Man being dumped isn't ever easy specially when you're in love. but you know what is going to be harder ...is when it comes time to die and then you realize how much energy you wasted on a woman who obviously doesn't care about you anymore.
2006-12-29 09:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaww..it's hard to let someone you love go..but can't you see..your ex isn't even responding to you! let her go..if she comes back..she's yours..forget about this one and soon, you'll find another one..but if you really wanna be on talking terms to her, then ask her out and tell her how you really feel and you really want to be friends with her..the key ingredient to any relationship is to be frank and speak what your heart wants to say...good luck! =)
2006-12-29 08:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let time pass, and see if she calls you. Just ACT like you don't care anymore. Girls hate that, well i know i do
2006-12-29 08:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by star-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like SHE wants to talk anymore. Let her go. You've showed her that you're still interested, that's all you can do. Wait and see.
2006-12-29 08:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely agree with everyone saying to leave her alone, she will either come around, or never come around. My best advice...there are plenty of fish in the sea...trust me
2006-12-29 09:03:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋