do guys always flirt,cant they be loyal?

Answer 1

Some guys flirt and some guys don't. It's called being a "PLAYER". You have to find the right one who isn't going to flirt. Everyone will look at someone else, it's human nature. But flirting is not good. Sometimes men and women flirt to make their partner jealous so that their partner pay attention to them more. It's all a game.

Answer 2

Guys will flirt. Its just one of those things. Like girls flirting.

But you can tell in the way they flirt. If its just words and maybe a wink, then that's pretty much harmless.

Once they start hugging and holding hands or sitting on each other's laps. Then they don't care about you. They are just out to satisfy their own needs for attention, and no matter what you do, or like that other guy said - even if your head is the best on the planet - they will still go elsewhere for attention.

You can only judge someone on their actions.
Take notice of the way he looks at you and the way he acts around you.

Does he rush off or not kiss you properly when he wants to see his friends? Is he angry with you when you ask him to leave his friends and be with you because you are upset (legitimate reason I mean). Then he is not loyal to you.

You can flirt a little and be loyal to your partner. Its a need for attention and validation that you are an attractive person.

But if you flirt a lot, or make sexual suggestions, then you are not loyal to your partner.

Answer 3

Flirting is not the measure of someone being loyal or not being loyal. We all flirt. Sometimes without even realizing that we are. Flirting is also subjective. Meaning that not everyone views flirting the same way. What someone may see as flirting another will see it as nothing at all. Personally, I see nothing wrong with a bit of flirting but only if there are very strict boundaries. My question would be how do you know he is flirting and what do you consider flirting to be?

Answer 4

Guys always flirt in somekind of form as well as women do. They can still be loyal, but a passing look or stare is a flirt. No harm done!

Answer 5

Be with a real man and he won't want to flirt with anyone else, of course we're all human and will look and maybe even be nice which may be taken the wrong way as flirting but if he's not cheating and he loves you then who cares? Dont be insecure.

Answer 6

Flirts are meant to be harmless. We as women have the tough job of determining what crosses the line because then its no longer flirting its disrespect. Guys can be loyal. But try to be more secure in yourself, if your guys does flirt and you find it disrespectful then tell him, if he doesn't stop then he is not the right one. But its just flirting.
Because someone flirts doesn't mean they are going to cheat

Answer 7

You could ask exactly the same question about girls - guys and girls flirt.

There's nothing wrong with flirting there's only an issue when flirting is acted upon. I flirt with girls every day - it doesn't mean I want anything more than friendship with them.

Maybe you're just with the wrong guy...

Answer 8

well guys do flirt, girls do flirt too, most guys are loyal once they have decided on a soulmate but there will always be a few that will go around asking for trouble.... the same applies to gals.... but we cannot be as loyal as a dog because we will never be totally dependent on the opposite sex for our survival.

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with flirting it is when they act on it is when there's problems.
Yes, Men can be loyal as well.

Answer 10

Everyone flirts, it's human nature. I don't think it means they are not loyal. I do it, and I have a bf I would never cheat on.