We were in a long distance relationship. After we met for the first time we instanly fell in love and kept our love somehow by email and phonecalls. Then a year later, we had a chance to meet again
but he didn't treat me as sweet as before. He seemed to be bothered by my look, yes, I was a year older than the last time (He was too...) yes, I gained some weight. After that second date he told me we were not meant to be anyway as we both have changed and time and distance didn't help matters either. I just can't believe him. I know we were deeply in love. He called me the day before we met to tell me how much he loved me or missed me .......I know he was a visual guy though...
Probably I better off him, I know now how shallow his love towards me was. But I sure need time to get over it. Can you believe such a terrible guy exists and I was in love with ?
2006-12-29 00:14:29 · 9 answers · asked by Lin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me that he just broke up with you just because he saw you as you were now. He needed to except the changes you went threw and the changes he did as well. If he truelly loved you he would accept you no matter what. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Guys can be insensitive(No offense boys). But just keep moveing forward. Don't go threw a stand still ok? I know it's hard but we become stronger when we learn from the pain and get threw it with help or by ourselves ok? If you need to talk more please be free to email me at Freak_girl_14@yahoo.com
2006-12-29 00:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by SweetCocoaAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never trusted long distance relationships. they just seems bit far fetched.The situation you are in now seems to be you are now in the verge of a break up.Don`t be to hard on yourself, time fades attraction and when reality bites.
2006-12-29 01:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend was in a relationship like that she really let rip when he said that but sometimes you just have to grin and bear it and possibly call him back and let rip like my friend either way
another good way is focus all that anger into something else like go to the gym or try a new hobby it can REALLY help!!!!
2006-12-29 00:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you'll encounter more just like him. They're everywhere. There are plenty of women who behave the same way. It's not a gender thing.
2006-12-29 00:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lin, Hang in there. He was not for you. You will find someone who will appreciate you for you no matter what changes your outter looks like.
Remember you will feel better with time.
2006-12-29 00:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are of such type,u need not to worry,a better advice would be u find a better one for yourself,u vud be more happy
2006-12-29 00:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but dont let it bring you down too much keep the faith and let this guy go. you will find love if your not looking for it.., and only if your not looking. well thats what I think
2006-12-29 00:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lin, dont worry. there are still more boys out there you know. he is not the only guy in this world. get over him
2006-12-29 00:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by alex_marionne123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only seen this man twice in a couple of yrs..move on. you will find someone better and HOPEFULLY see more often!
2006-12-29 00:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋