2006-12-29 00:14:25 · 40 answers · asked by prettyface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ehm.....no.....we are driven to be unfaithful...
2007-01-02 00:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're mixing apples and oranges. Actually, the question you should have asked was: Are men naturally monogamous?
The answer to that question is obviously a resounding "No!" as no other male animal on the planet is held to that standard. There are some species that choose to remain with one mate throughout their lives; but what they don't tell you is that when the opportunity arises in the natural environment, the male's instincts will take over and he'll take full advantage, never considering the 'feelings' of the female he's bonded with...it's just an act of sexual behavior, not an act of adultery!
As far as being "unfaithful", that only happens when both parties have agreed to sexual exclusivity and without informing the other party, one of you has chosen to break the pact. It isn't a sexual act that tears the union, it's the betrayal of trust. And it doesn't take sex to accomplish that...
2006-12-29 00:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I would agree with you that some guys out there might be unfaithful, I want to make it categorically clear that your generalization about us guys being "naturally unfaithful" is rather unfair on us. I believe we deserve an apology for that. Let me tell you that there're several thousands of unfaithful gurls out there also but that's NOT a good premise to argue that all you gurls are unfaithful. I hope you agree with that.
2006-12-29 00:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are women naturally unfaithful?
I'd say that some men as well as some women can be unfaithful, but i don't believe that every male on this planet has the ability or desire to be unfaithful
2006-12-29 00:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it's not just a guy thing, a type of person is unfaithful and it's usually to do with emotional issues and family relationships.
2006-12-29 02:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought that if you treated your man lovingly and did everything for him he would think he couldn't live without you but i was wrong it was after he was unfaithful that he realised that he had a good thing with me so i have forgiven him and it has been two years now and we are very happy and we just found out on xmas eve that we are expecting a baby in august !! My man says that he knew he was gonna crash and burn with this other woman but he needed to get it out of his system or he would keep thinking about her or worse go back to her!! I say they can if they wanted to they all have the same feelings it's just if they have morals or not.
2006-12-29 02:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by fortunemonkeys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might be, due to the fact that life's only major purpose is to procreate itself. More encounters = more chances for procreation for anyone, but don't forget the difference between what comes after in males and females lives... While females have a limited time and ovules, males are much more "gifted" by nature on this side.
Plus: the men are physically stronger, they have to provide - ergo, they have to move around a lot more, and a lot of other aspects that can be tracked back to our very origins as a species. Males stand for adventure and discovery, females for continuity and stability.
Finally, don't forget that any kind of bound relationship regulated by society perspective or by law (like monogamy, family etc.) is nothing more than a social consensus upon how to make things move smoother for all of us... it's not natural law and it can disappear anytime.
Have fun and don't get upset... Nature's really smart in all its doings! ;)
2006-12-29 00:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Zeta S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We have this instinct in us to do the dirt at any available stage. What a bloke needs to do is to get a bird who doesnt mind if he gets a taste of other birds. dont listen to the rest of these nonces. We are naturally unfaithful and it is great for us.
2006-12-29 00:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bosco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are as naturally unfaithful as women. It is something we all struggle with. However, if we truly love one another and value each other then men and women alike will be less likely to cheat.
2006-12-29 00:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any woman who's looking for a faithful partnet/husband/boyfriend whatever is just stupid. I mean, come on: who in their right mind would want to spend their entire lifetimes wiht the same peson. No matter how much you love your companion, you'll always end by getitng fed up. Then maybe you'll go your way each, and then coem bakc together that's your problem. What i mean is that it's normal that someone might want variety. I'm a woman, and if i ever started going out wiht someone, i'd neither expect them to be faithful, and even less want them to expect me to be faithful. And life would just be too boring to live alongside the same person.
2006-12-29 00:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Off-with-their-heads! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course not. Everyone, male and female, have the same temptations and options open to them when in a relationship, and it is up to them to intellectually decide what they want to do or not do.
Perhaps you are dating similar sorts of men if you believe this - there seems to be a tendency among young 'lad' types to do whatever they like, no matter how selfish it is. Find someone more mature to trust.
2006-12-30 06:35:50 · answer #11 · answered by gingersnapschick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋