Five months ago I met this girl shes beautiful,smart and thoutful,we been talking on the phone most of the times with a few dates here and there. I love hanging out with here and she says the same thing about me but when i asked her about been my girl she says she does not know what she wants. Shes 25 yrs old and I am 33yrs is it the age ? or what ?
2006-12-29 00:13:58 · 9 answers · asked by s374rc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think its the age at all. Sounds like you like her more than she likes you. Ive said what she said before because i liked more than one person and wasnt sure which one i wanted(which of course means i shouldnt have been with either of them). Once you meet someone you really like- you will do anything to be their one and only. Seems like all you can do is give her space- she will let you know when/if she is ready to be your girl. Up to you if you want to wait for her- but not much you can do other than wait. Hope it works out for you.
2006-12-29 00:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by skygirlchristine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At age 33 you should be old enough & mature enough to know;
She means that she's confused & doesn't know what she wants.
Give her time to make up her mind about a more serious relation ship, if you want a serious relationship with her. If you are just wanting a physical relationship, then move on, & quit wasting her time & yours.
2006-12-29 08:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by puddintain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes you, but does not want to hurt your feelings by telling you "exactly" what she is concerned about. Or, she could be being really honest. Most girls will express emotions to you, and she truly may not know what she wants, OR, she could be stringing you along with hopes someone better will come along. I would tell her to doodoo or get off the pot!
2006-12-29 09:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's simply confused.......she obviously likes you...but she doesn't have that 'butterflies in the tummy' feeling when she's around you. Sounds like maybe she just wants to keep it as friends right now. Don't force things.......if it develops, great....if not, don't be mad or offended by it.........
2006-12-29 08:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-it's not the age--she's saying she needs time--so just be patient patient and give her some space--don't pressure her.
2006-12-29 08:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants you to fight for her and tell her what she wants pretty much or at least confirm how you feel...
2006-12-29 08:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by potato19921992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not ready to settle down. either you wait for her or move on.
balls in your court.
No one here can help you make that decision, you have to make that choice by yourself. good luck!!
2006-12-29 08:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age has nothin to do with it but she is not completely satisfied with you so don't wast your time and be to involved
2006-12-29 08:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by miss v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother its so simple
if she says that ,it means
she has another guy in her life
and she doesn't no if she wants to be with u or with him
well cheers
2006-12-29 08:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by ghost13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋