Foolish Friend?

Question

My friend(different friend from the other question I posted before),She has a crush on this one science teacher from like 8th grade. And she feels safe around him and what not. My friend is very...sensitive(like me)but she's very emotionally weak if that makes since...if she ever let her guard down and that teacher ever....you know. Then she would do it and feel bad right after words. She is always telling me how much she's in love with this guy and tells him a bit of her personal stuff. I snapped at her saying she's not in love,I felt bad yes,but I'm like her personal body guard. I yell at her because I know how she'll be willing to do anything even when it's dangerous. I dont want her to end up on the news because of some teacher doing something horrible to her. Should I keep on putting her down because of that? I mean he's married and I don't want her to get hurt. By the way we are in 11th grade and he usto be our middle school teacher in 8th grade but now teaches at our high school

Answer 1

well professional ethics prevent him from trying to bang your friend. If he did not only is it illegal it is also ethically wrong. Meaning he could do jail time for it. Sooooo if she wants to bang him, legally she would have to wait until she graduates from HS. Morally, it would be wrong for both your friend and the teacher to hook up. Butttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt we both know that it does happen. The best advise I can give you is not to put your friend down for it, but also to make sure she doesnt do anything stupid by trying to get too close to A. A married guy, and B. A teacher.