i have been hesitating to pass this note to this guy whom i've seen for quite some time..but everyone around me told me that i deserve better and that i shouldn't stoop so low for that guy who isn't even worthy of my attention..but i beg to differ..i feel that even though he doesn't look very friendly..i have this special feeling towards him..a very warm and secure feeling. my sister said that why, as a girl, must i reach that stage of passing a guy my number when i'm not short of suitors..true, i'm not short of suitors but what i'm afraid here is as a girl,i don't have the courage to do so and everytime when i've made up my mind to do it,many other negative thoughts will come in and make me change my mind again.and i'm afraid of embarrassing myself..
can someone please tell me what i should or can do?it's been bugging me for quite some time..
2006-12-29 00:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first off, everyone else isnt living your life and feeling your feelings. If you feel for this guy, I say go for it. Whats the worst that coud happen? He turns you down. So what, at least you gave it a shot. Life is too short not to make yourself happy, and ya never know, he might be the one to answer all your dreams......
2006-12-29 00:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by justjim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have tried a couple of times but you said something always stops you.....maybe you should listen to your feelings and inner thoughts. Our subconcious tries to warn us sometimes by pulling and tugging at us when we go to do something. Think it through before you take the first step. When you are sure of it you will feel good about letting him in to your life, if these uncertain feelings keep showing up.....listen to yourself and move on to someone else. Our intuitions can be strong and very wise.
2006-12-29 08:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only problem is you! Never think that you will get embarrassed or something of that sort. I guy who likes/loves you will admire you no matter what silly things you do...and even give much of importance to your silly or funny habits/acts. Trust me. I love my girl not because she is beautiful and bla bla bla but because there are things that she does and those things make her very special to me. One day you will find a guy who will cherish you no matter what...and please Ariel....stop confusing yourself. I know girls love the confusion games.
2006-12-29 08:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by josh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who are they to tell you what to do and what not to do and whats best for you? if youre curious..just go for it. atleast you would know the answer for yourself instead of thinking what ifs.
2006-12-29 08:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋