I've met a girl that I seem to get on with really well. But her behaviour confuses me. For instance, we may have a date, we get on great, we exchange lovely text messages for a couple of days then it stops. I wonder if it's 'something I said' so I text 'are you OK?' or 'is there a problem? She won't respond to my messages so I cool off and think she's not interested. Then she suddenly will call me and suggests we do lunch and the pattern seems to start again. It's like one minute she pulls me in then but pushes me away the next.
2006-12-29 00:03:44 · 17 answers · asked by skindeep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she's just not interested but she wants to keep you interested in her. You should move on.
2006-12-29 00:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by Miss B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that I have done that to a guy / guys before I was totally interested. She may be interested in you as in dating because obviously she continues to call or text you BUT..... No she isn't playing hard to get she is just playing the field! Think about it! Common sense how can you respond to texts and spend all your time with one person if your trying to date a few others as well. Basically she is having time for you when nobody has time for her!
2006-12-29 00:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by tiffany s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you this but it seems to me like an immature person.
When you just want to pretend the "hard to get" one, you don`t exchange lovely text messages, because YOU ARE HARD!!!. When you are playing, then yes, you do it and then you may suddenly cut it off and then...start again (because you are immature). If you still wanna test her, why don`t you "disappear" for a while? And see if it bothers her at all - i hope she will change behavior after this and show her real interest.
2006-12-29 00:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by EMBELL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gut impression is that she is spending her time with someone else or maybe a couple of other dates. Possibly she is playing the field, which is fine you know, as long as you don't have a commitment or an exclusive relationship. I would pull back a little if I were you.
2006-12-29 00:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Penelope Yelsopee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could just not be ready for a comitment. If u like her then maybe u should just tell her & see what she says. She dosent sound like she is playin hard 2 get. So talk 2 her if she likes u GREAT if not then theres plenty more fish in the sea.
Christine
2006-12-29 00:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by !XxXDevil'sRejectXxXCatLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like something I would do. I cant figure out why I do that exactly but I guess it's because I'm shy. I'm a bit scared of having a relationship too. Commitment kinda freaks me out. If those are her reasons also then she likes you and she's just shy. So good luck! oh and I suggest you ask her. â¥
2006-12-29 00:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be very careful because she might be using you to satisfy her own needs,or maybe she still a bit confused about what she wants and does not know whether your relationship is the best she can have,or maybe she is being influenced by someone to live you.so do a little bit of research and find out whats really going before you make a decision of wether to continue or to end the relationship that is my own point of view
2006-12-29 00:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by potom5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these games women play, im kinda dealing with the same thing, only the girl has a kid and a crazy ex which is turning into baggage because I think she still has feelings for the loser....
Bleh, women, cant figure em out.
2006-12-29 00:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the girl's busy? why don't you ask her about it? but my guess is she is interested in you because she did get back to you and suggest doing lunch with you..if she isn't interested, she wouldn't even bother to get back to you or exchange any of the lovely messages you claimed..don't worry..i'm sure things will work out sooner or later!
good luck! =)
2006-12-29 00:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing hard to get and then when you back off she thinks you are no longer interested and resumes the relationship. If you want her, tell her to stop playing and get real.
2006-12-29 00:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋