from friend to fcuk, should I take the risk???

Question

I met a girl about three months ago ata aparty and she gave me her number. We've kept in touch and she seems interested. I am interested in a strictly sexual relationship only. How do I tell her without offending her or brreaking her heart. Shd I tell her at all? She's my friend's cousin too

I'd really luv to get it on with her - like friends with benefits but nothing more

Answer 1

Hey DUDE!! You sound like a pretty 'smooth' guy! Yes, you HAVE to tell her. If she likes you, she will be hurt, but at least you're being honest with her! It's much better to be a "cold hearted", shallow, honest guy that a two bit a$$hole. By the way, what is so horrible about this girls personality that you don't wanna go out with her? If she's a good girl, then you'll have a good woman, that's also hot! What's the matter with you. If you just wanna get laid, find a hooker, or use your right hand! Matter of fact, leave this poor girl alone and go after the school ho. That's all you seem to be worth. { on 2nd thought, you were 'big' enough to ask this question publicly, so maybe there's hope for you. Do yourself, and a lot of innocent girls a favor. Straighted up, fcuk buddies don't work.Also, your friend probably could, and should, kick your a$$}

Answer 2

Do not take the risk especially if she is your friend's cousin. As some people, men or women, like to deny often, sex involves some sort of attachment and the more you do it, the more attached you get which could definitely hurt any of you. It doesn't necessarily mean emotionnaly for both parties. Even if you found a way to break the news to her and she "says" she could do it, believe me, it won't last long and the damage would be done. And that could affect your relationship with your friend.

The ball's in your court nonetheless and good luck.

Answer 3

If you want to keep her as a friend you won't even go there. If you think that she may be open to it you have to tell her what your intentions are. Not telling her and getting intimate with her is a lose -lose situation. F**k buddy situations rarely continue as friends once it's over. And you need to realize the possibility of her developing feelings for you even though you have an agreement.So weight the risk and think about if you want a true friendship with her then proceed from there.

Answer 4

Women that do the f**k buddy thing tend to be very strong emotionally and sure of themselves. If she seems like this be straight with her, tell her you like her but can't have a relationship (and why). If she seems fairly susceptible to her emotions then you'd probably end up hurting her and should just keep her as a friend.

Answer 5

on an identical time as i do no longer approve of robust language, i will certainly see the place you're coming from. And for that reason, you desire to be noticeably employer, seeing how this person has ruined your popularity or perhaps gotten you into some legal difficulty. From this element forward, merely bypass away her on her very own. Letting losers use you as a crutch gets you nowhere, and, as you have experienced, it additionally gets you into difficulty from time to time, as nicely. perfect of success!

Answer 6

This is tricky...If you care about her feelings, you should flat out tell her that you what a "no strings attached" relationship. Otherwise, you might end up hurting her pretty bad....and that isn't really fair. You never know, she may be up for it, too!! Best of Luck!!

Answer 7

manythings is there see what her mind if same feeling then u go for that, what u need

Answer 8

I think you should stop thinking with your d

Answer 9

Go for it dude. She might have the same idea.

Answer 10

make the butty call.