i have a best friend he said he wants to be mine. he use to call me every night. we hold hands even at class. but then after semestral break he dont talk to me no more. he is being cute to my best friend jel(not her real name). i think his making me jealous but he still calls me at night. is he still serious?????
2006-12-28 23:33:04 · 19 answers · asked by alex_marionne123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be having this conversation with him. The reason why relationships fall apart is because people fail to relate to each other. If you were apart during semstral (as you called it) break and did contact him at all - maybe he is thinking that you really aren't that interested in him or he feels you don't need or want that much attention from him. I would suggest you have this conversation with your "friend" asap in a nice and friendly why (not accusatory - you have no right to be) and ask him about things and that you feel you are getting mixed signals from him and that you really care to know.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-28 23:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
in step with threat he feels intimidated? Are you oftentimes an outgoing person? Boys could be made frightened extremely surely, noticeably in the event that they actually such as you. 5 months is a sprint long to experience that way, yet he might additionally be falling for you and is at a loss for words approximately his thoughts. so a techniques as staying homestead from college day after on the instant, it is widespread of somebody who's at a loss for words, or frightened. The worst case situation is that he's depressed, or got here across yet another woman and he does not comprehend the thank you to tell you. in spite of the undeniable fact that, wait a pair days in the past you call him, or in case you notice him at college, do no longer ask too many questions suitable away. Say hi and ask how he's feeling. Smile at him and don't say something propose or judgmental. Then after some days, if he looks very nicely, ask whats happening. Boys like long relationships with women who do no longer continually seem "on their case." i'm hoping this helps.
2016-11-24 22:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alex, my dear girl, boys are famous for that. And I have bad news, they never outgrow it. Don't get me wrong, there a some "good" men out there, but few and far between. The best thing to do at this point is to ask him straight out, "Do we have a "thing" together or not", something like that. If he wants you, tell him that the "attention" he pays to your friend bothers you, so 'QUIT IT!' I've learned to lay it on the line with a guy from the beginning. I tell him, " If you want to see other people, that's o.k., you SHOULD do that, However, if you want to be with me, then great, but it's gonna be ONLY me". The biggest mistake you can make is to make a guy feel 'trapped'. So make sure you tell him that you encourage him to see who he wants, to do what makes him happy. But to be with you, he must be true. Good luck
2006-12-28 23:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he does not know what he wants
Take a step back play him at his own game
I bet he wont like it very much
Then we he eventually relalises what he is missing out on talk to him
But be aware it could take him some time to cop on to what your playing at
Best of Luck
2006-12-28 23:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by aoife k 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well he told you what he wanted, but from what I see, that never happened as you referred to him as your bestfriend. If that's the way it happened, you can't really expect him to keep waiting after you and maybe he just decided to keep you as a friend only. But who am I to talk ? If you consider him your bestfriend as you say, why don't you just ask him ? And if you like him, why don't you just tell him ?
2006-12-28 23:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by melibishou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The main word being boy. He's stilll young trying to find he's self and you are still young yourself. Believe me when you get older things will get better.
2006-12-28 23:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by iceutodef 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
uhmm hes probably just not too sure about what he wants right now. but i dont really suggest for him to be dating two girls at once. just tell him straight forward whats on your mind and if hes as nice as you say he is, he'll understand and fix things and if not...then he wasnt the right guy for you anyway.
2006-12-28 23:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men look for apperances , maybe he didn't decide yet who to choose . What is apparent is that he , at least , takes you into consideration , but he didn't choose whether to stay with u or not.
2006-12-28 23:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by chad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd put the retarded guy on the spot and ask him whether he want to be wid you in da hood or wid dat other skank yo.
yo!!!!!
2006-12-28 23:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's an a**hole and probably will never grow out of it. I say block his number and ignore him. If he really wants you, he'll straighten up and fly right- eventually. If not, you've just proved my point.
2006-12-28 23:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Cindarella R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋