get away for a week but i dont no what to tell my husband as he is quite obsessed and wants to no where i am all the time where shall i tell him i am going
2006-12-28 23:15:44 · 35 answers · asked by Jane F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get your GF to go on a trip with you (cover story)
2006-12-28 23:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're probably just infatuated with this new guy. Does he even love you? Probably not since your marriage doesn't seem to bother him. You're married!! If you're going to be unfaithful you shouldnt have gotten married in the first place! Be a mature woman and make things work, I'm not surprised your husband is getting obsessed! I really hope you don't have kids cos that would just be messed up and shameful (not that it isnt already)!
2006-12-29 01:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by dragon512k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a coward. If you want to go out with some other man, divorce your husband first.
Although I should probably warn you, the feelings of "love" you have for this other man are nothing more than chemical reactions that will disappear in time. But I'm guessing by your grammar in this question that concepts such as cause and effect may also be beyond the pale, so have fun.
2006-12-28 23:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Steve 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What the hell is so wrong with you that you would have to ask such a ridiculous question like this. If you are looking to rid yourself of guilt for being a liar, cheat, and a really bad "wife" (if you can consider yourself one) then you will not get it from me. All the people who have answered telling you to lie to your husband are just as *****y as you are. Think about yourself a bit more---oh wait you are doing plenty of that! You have no idea what you are doing to him long term by cheating and deceiving him. If you ever cared for him--which I doubt--just end it and save him the embarrassment of screwing around on him. That is a hard thing to deal with. I sure wonder why he is possessive? Maybe you give him reasons?
2006-12-29 00:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by J D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl im in the same situation as you. i have met a wonderful man and im married to a control freak,its hard makiing up excuses all the time. hes pushed me away by accusing me of cheating all the time and keeping me under lock and key, hiding me away from the world. dont listen to all the bad comments on here, no1 knows unless theyve been in our situation.u deserve to be happy and youre not happy in your marraige or you wouldnt want to spend time with someone else. things happen for a reason. tell your husband to mind his own buisness, your a person you need a life, we was put on this earth to be happy and to enjoy ourselves. you only live once!! if you really want to be with this man and hes more than a bit of fun, you should leave your husband and be with him. good luck whatever you do but i know what your going through xx
2006-12-29 01:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How well do you know this guy? Are the feelings you have for him, the same when you first married your husband? Does this guy really love you? Does he know your married?
I think you need to ask yourself why you are unhappy in your marriage, discuss it with your husband, & try to resolve the problem(s).
If you can't then you should think about getting a divorce.
Don't run away from your problems, deal with them first, then think about finding happiness & getting on with your life.
2006-12-28 23:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not going anywhere, if you know what is good for you! If you are having problems with your husband, looking for another companion isn't going to solve it! Please stay and sort your issues out instead of running away. If it is not worth it, tell him of your intentions and leave him, preferrably after you have dumped the other man first, because leaving your husband for him will be used as a weapon against you in future. Please wisen up, and listen to the sound of conscience. Better remain friends with the other man first, as you work out your issues with your husband
2006-12-28 23:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by aminimungu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's really no good lying! if your that unhappy with your husband to want to cheat on him - tell him straight, if he's violent and you can't get away call the police and go in a refuge. but if it's just you who wants cheat and have your husband - it will never happen he will find out , either tell your husband u dont want to be with him and get a divorce or stop seeing the other guy. Don't cheat yourself into thinking it will work with both of them!
2006-12-28 23:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of bs is that? Oh so you want to have your cake and eat it to? If you want to spend time with the other guy do the right thing and tell your husband the truth.
2006-12-29 00:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by ugogirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, by all means go with the guy and leave your husband so he can find a decent woman. Your pathetic. No wonder your husband is possesive. Your wrong and a pittyful spouse.
2006-12-28 23:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're crazy right?
c'mon, you really think that this whole plan of yours with sneaking around is really gunna work
and what makes you think that this guy your cheating with isnt just using you for the sex?
sure hes said hes loves you but the percentage of people who say it and mean it is low in society today.
You either love your husband or you don't, you can't love both of them at once. So you either stop fooling around or get divorced, its as simple as that.
And i want you to realise that everyone gets caught in the end, so dont start thinking your an exception and things will be different for you, because they wont be, trust me.
2006-12-28 23:24:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋