and how should i ask? should it simply be lunch or something?
2006-12-28 23:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by cowsurfer2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to clarify, the date is a girl and i am the guy...probably doesn't change much but yeah...and i have an open lunch period with her but she is always in the imc studying. should i still ask her, i've thought of it but it seems rude...
2006-12-28 23:11:57 · update #1
"Wanna grab a bite at mcdonald's or sumthn?"
Dat'll work..Make it sound a bt casual ..not giving away too much of ur feelings rite now
2006-12-28 23:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe start with a movie, hopefully something like Blood Diamond that you can discuss afterwards. I'd avoid a meal before since he's shy. He will need some time to be around you to be able to open up. A meal is full of pressure to be witty and funny and smart, all the stuff that makes a shy guy shy.
2006-12-29 07:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lunch, coffee, drinks, etc is always a good idea because it's less intimidating. But, if you think you'll be shy during the date, choose an activity that will keep you both busy to fill any quiet times... such as mini golf, bowling, ice skating, etc.
Just ask! What's the worse that could happen? :)
2006-12-29 07:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by agruppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about movies, it's kind of wasting the time you could be spending getting to know her..i say do something where lots of people are, or a place where you guys do somethign active (maybe play at the arcades, go to a fair, a concert) you know,things like that will create a different kind of bond, s he'll feel more comfortable around you that way too because both of you wont be so worried about "what is he/she thinking, do i look funny? what should i say?" the converstaion will just come more naturally and you guys will have other things to think about like the game you're playing or whatever.
, it'll be easier to open up. trust me! goodluck~ ^_~*
2006-12-29 08:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with a group of people that both you and him know... Let him warm up... Make the second date the one that you go alone. It worked on me. I'm very shy.
2006-12-29 07:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by chef nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and ask her, will u come for lunch with me , if she is interested in u she will come, simple.
2006-12-29 07:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
M.O.V.I.E.S
Damn!!!
Ain't No Talking In There Yo!!!
2006-12-29 07:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where he'd feel comfortable at then take it from there.
2006-12-29 07:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh
2006-12-29 07:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋