i like this someone, but never talk to him before..i'm not sure if he even knows that i'm exist..i think i'm pathetic, aint i? but i never have the guts to go n talk to him..juz hae a lil chat of whatsoever..am i pathetic? and do i have to hold on to this feeling? if not, how do i get rid of it?
2006-12-28 23:04:13 · 6 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, i think it's pretty normal to admire someone - even if it's secretly done. i think most people have had the same kind of experience. don't worry too much. just enjoy the feeling this person brings to you.
i wish you well...
2006-12-28 23:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by emma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly you are not at all pathetic. it is a very normal thing to happen. its like if u people see each other every day like you both r in the same school then u can try to increase your conversation without feeling guilty about anything n after when u r gud frnds bring up all ur guts n then tell him how do u feel about him i hope that everything will go right
2006-12-28 23:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by anku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always gonna wonder about this guy when you're older and think if I had that time back, I would have just gone up to him and started a conversation. U never know, he might be really shy, and has secretly been admiring you from afar. Do it before it's too late, life's too short for this. Good Luck xx
2006-12-28 23:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well anna.. I think - personally - that u should try to talk with him... i mean comeon??? He wont know ur liking him more than as a friend... Jst cs u talk with him rite?? so therez no need to be scared of that... bt den againn... if u really like him... u better make SURE he atleast tlk with u... by making him know u exist... u knw.. just comment on what ever he'z doing...or jst ask a question on wat ever u dont knw abt... u knw like u really need da help...
nd if u think u should move on.... as in... if da dude doesnt deserve ur attention... den... well.. i guez u should just try to forget him... nd look at his negative sides??
I hope i'll be of help! nd gud luck... but personally i think u should jst try to talk with him... den i'm sure something will happen.... @ da least u two will be friends...Gud luck!!!
2006-12-28 23:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetarg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him and ask him out, the worst thing he can do is laugh in your face. Things like that happen all the time to guys. Its the 21st century time for women to experience the joy of rejection.
2006-12-28 23:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not that your pathetic..... if the guy REALLY has no idea you exist, then maybe you should move on. if you really like this guy, you should go talk to him.
2006-12-28 23:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Orange Lipbalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋