i met this guy through a friend of mine. and we like each other since we first met. but our family fianicial and background is totally oppsite. he is very poor almost only 1 meal per 2 days but i am studying in a private school and he never study anymore.
I havent met him since we are together, we been talking on the phone. But i'll met him this sunday. He been online a lot with me but mostly he just playing game but we still can talk. He borrow some money from his friends and he told them that on sunday he will pay them back which mean it is my money. i say i aint want him to borrow money. He keep saying that i dont love him.
Does he really love me or my cash?
But if he doesnt, y he say he will move to my province to stay with me. He say he will work or study and live with me.
2006-12-28 22:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i have heard from his friend that he been waiting for me to call him in the morning.
he also used to tell me that if we met, he wont let em go anywhere anymore cuz he dont wanna lost me again
2006-12-28 22:48:03 · update #1
TRUST is the keyword.
2006-12-28 23:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,I fill your pain as i read your question.You see,you say that "he is online most of the time and he plays alot."Then yet again he borrowed money from his friends which when you meet,you will give him the money so that he pays your friend.
You've asked,Is he for real?please read your other part of the question.Let me give you a hint,will I go into resturant order for lazanya or pitza then tell the owner that my Girlfriend is gonna pay for it after a day?will I enter a taxi to come visit my girlfriend then I tell the taxi driver that she will pay on arrival then when I arrive I ask her to give 5$ to the cab driver?
This guy to me isnt a responsible person.He is a"I wonna be rich kind of guy"The way i see you,you need to get someone eventhough they dont have money like that guy,they can actually hundle themselves in whatever succumstance.
I am trying to date a 32 year old lady and I am 26 years.Do you expect my lady to be paying everything for me,I act very irresponsible in situations knowing that she will take care of me?HELL NO!I will be dreaming.
THIS GUY IS NOT FOR REAL!be patient,stop calling him because,you are putting your sweet life at risk. :-|
2006-12-29 07:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by The millionaire next door 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I...I think he loves your cash. otherwise, it could be cause he isn't perfect, and has made a mistake. maybe he's ashamed he asked you for money, so he hides behind 'you don't love me' cause he can't back out already. nevertheless, don't lend him the money no matter what he says. if the relationship is precious enough to him, he won't jeopardise it by asking for the money.
2006-12-29 06:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by buttercookies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is taking you for a ride, nobody who can afford only one meal every two days, has spare cash for a computer or phone. get rid of this creep fast.
2006-12-29 06:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it doesn't sound like he loves you. He's needy and using you, instead of learning how to take care of himself. I think he's going to bring you more trouble if you continue seeing him.
2006-12-29 06:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know...maybe he does love you and the money is just a bonus...but if you aren't totally crazy about him, i'd advise you to break it off in case things get more complicated.
2006-12-29 06:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said I would say he wants you for your money....sorry hun
2006-12-29 07:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say from just this...you'll be able to tell soon enough, remain skeptical
2006-12-29 06:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves your cash
2006-12-29 06:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋