I'm in a long distance relationship. I'm fine wit not talking to him everyday but when this guy waits about 3/4 days till he next calls, I can't help but wonder if he really likes me or not!. He's even told me he wants us to have a baby, although I've never heard "I love you" from him yet.
Also, we've talked bout putting webcam on, and I told him that if we're eva online to ask me and I will, to save phone bills. The day after, I sent him an instant message on MSN and he replied with "Get your webcam ready" I said no, cuz hav PJs on, I said something else when he replied sayin he can't type at the moment cuz he's busy on the playstation, maybe he replied with that statement cuz I said no to video conversation. I can't help but feel used, maybe he's using this "baby" talk to make me think he wants a future. Do you think I should call him now about how I feel and talk to him about it or should I leave it till he calls?!!!!! PLEASE HELP this is really important to me
2006-12-28 22:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you even know this guy? he's playing with playstation and talking about a baby? Think twice honey.....
2006-12-28 22:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's talking baby talk and hasn't even said I love you yet, I'd say you are getting way ahead of yourself. If he only calls every few days and then when he does call he spends his time playing video games while on with you...he's being very immature and uncaring. The least he coulde do is give you a few minutes of undivided attention. I would say to be careful and don't let this guy talk you into someething you are not comfortable with just to keep him happy. It doesn't sound like he's doing a very good job at keeping you happy. If he continues to do stuff like this...dump him and move on to someone who knows how to treat a lady.
2006-12-29 06:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really now. How hard is it to say "I want your baby"? how exactly are you going to have a baby if he's playing play station? You need to block his emails and fine you a real life person to talk to. Keep internet relationships for pen pals only. And please dont have kids with the guy! you'll land up having two kids on your hands!!!!!
2006-12-29 06:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen basically ,i'd rather suggest , you call it quits 'cos he seems to be an immature guy!!!!... Mever let your ego or attitude down for a guy like him!!!!!wait till he calls you and speaks to you 'cos such guys take girls for a royal ride!!
Sorry no offence meant if you really like that guy... but i was in a similar situation....till i called it quits!!!!:D
2006-12-29 06:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him how you feel. It sounds like you need to clarify just what kind of relationship you have. Neither one of you sounds ready to have a baby though. Babies are a HUGE commitment and neither one of you sounds ready for that.
2006-12-29 06:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by jingles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sir Vanhammer
2006-12-29 06:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by I aM CrAzY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehhh my boyfriend used to do something like that.. I'd recommend either asking him if he really loves you, asking if y'all can talk everyday,or telling him to choose between his playstation and you. Lol that might do the trick.
-good luck
2006-12-29 06:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by kelly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him this link, it might just bring the message home:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1329362959167995041
2006-12-29 06:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jay M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not blaming "him" .
playstations and computer games are very obsessive.
i'm obseessed with playing football.
i just can's help it,it's just natural.
talk to "him".Maybe play playstation with "him"??????
2006-12-29 06:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by Suprotim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget him...
don't expect a serious relationship online...
2006-12-29 06:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋